Ok I met this girl at the bars on the dance floor. Hit it off while dancing and made out with her. I made sure to get her number and told her I don't play games and that I would text her the next day. I have been talking with her over text for a few days and we are gonna do dinner. I made sure to ask her out to dinner because I have been stuck in the friend zone before and wanted to make my intentions clear. Any advice on what I should do? Should I go for the kiss again, because we have. im not sure.

yeah man in this part of the relationship it's okay to show some intentions. go on that date, and make sure you kiss her again. You could try and escalate things further as well.

Ok ill go for the kiss and let you know how it goes. Whats a good price range for a dinner?

Totally agree! go for it dont get caught in the friend zone! should have waited a couple of days before you texted her though.

good luck

A good price range? Wow I don't know I never take girls out for dinner haha.

Maybe you could just go to a nice italian place, nothing too fancy, but not a pizza hut either. You got anything like that over there?

Or one of those asian restaurants where they let you cook/fry your own food? That's fun and probably not too pricey either.

And yeah let us know how it went!

p.s. thanks for the rep bro always appreciated.

Yeah I thought about it but I really didn't want to risk the chance of her forgetting she gave me her number. I just told her when we were out that I dont play games and Ill text her the next day and she was happy. The next day I sent her one and was like ok I promised id text you here you go.

This is, in my opinion, really a wrong thought that some people have in the community.

It doesn't matter WHEN you text them really, have you seriously ever been rejected solely based on the amount of time you waited before calling/texting?

I usually text them the same night I pull the number, or else the next day. If you get a girl interested/attracted, it doesnt matter when you text them.

Waiting 1 day is something girls will just pick up on because some of my female friends once told me after they saw me getting a number "oh so now you're gonna wait a day and THEN text her huh? boys always do that to pretend they're not interested".

Sure you can pretend to be too busy to text her the first day but really, who is THAT busy that you can't take 2 minutes to send a text? Girls don't buy that shit.

Hope I don't derail your topic with this post bro. You did the right thing.

No I really appreciate your incite on it, and I honestly don't see the damage of texting for calling the day after. I have followed some of your posts like the dancing and kissing one and that helped me alot the last week. So I appreciate your advice. I am just nervous about this girl because I think we actually have a bit in common.

Great to hear that something I posted before helped you out!
I understand that you're nervous, shit, the last time a girl came over that I felt about the same way, I was sitting in my living room shaking, just fucking shaking It's alright to be a little nervous, even if she picks up on it, she will probably think its cute. Just dont let it ruin your game! When you've been with her for a couple of minutes and the ice is broken you will feel less and less nervous.

Let us know how it went yeah?

Take her some place where you can sit next to each other. A bar that does food and has big couches is what i'd go for.

If you are going to eat, meet her some place near the restaurnt so you can hold her hand and walk her there. Bouncing from place to place is good


I'd also agree with that the time has not much to do with chance of flaking. A solid number close, is a solid number close