So what do you guys do after meeting some girls at frat parties? Im ok with everything until after getting their numbers but that's where im stuck. Should I get the girl to come out to places with me the day after immediately? it sux since i dont have a car but any suggestions on what to do on day 2+? thanks

think about someplace relaxed that you like to visit (such as a coffee shop or something) and work it into your conversation (and talk it up to be really cool) when you first meet the girl. Then when you talk to her next say something like "hey you should meet me at [place] that I was telling you about, and we can catch up. [day1] or [day 2] work for you?"

~GQute

Depends on how well you did, really. If you were really hitting it off well with a girl do something that's one on one. The coffee thing is usually good, once I took a girl on a tour of the city and just told her I was going for a walk and invited her. If it wasn't a huge success the first night, tho, I like to invite her out with friends, so she doesn't feel like you're just trying to fuck her (if she was suggesting she wants it, by all means skip this shit). We go to a party and I'll see if she wants to come with me and my friends, hit the bars, etc. Then you can skip the intro stuff and build up attraction more.

But to the main question, I don't really set any time limit. If I don't have plans the next day, sure I'll ask her to hang out. If I'm busy until the next weekend I'll call her then. I personally hate the idea of intentionally waiting.