I met a girl last night at a club. We hung out for awhile, talked, danced etc. I suggested to hang out later on this week today and she said she just started dating someone else and it wouldn't be fair to me or the other guy. She then said she hopes we run into each other again at the club so we can still have fun. How do I handle this?

Thanks a lot.

Next time you run into her, make her forget all about that guy, kino escalate (i say that way too much ) go for a kiss or F-close.

Sure she might be seeing/dating that other guy but if she's really attracted to you and you play your cards right she will give him the speech she gave you.

Yeah, the next time I run into her, I'm going to step up my game big time. However, another meeting is a bit on the unlikely side. What's the best way to spark some interest just through messaging? I don't want to do phone calls just in case I become a friend she talks to cause I definitely don't want that.

well, just keep clubbing then, but don't do it to run into that girl again, just do it to game other women, and if you two happen to meet then you can always give it a shot. Don't think that this girl is everything because you are bound to meet someone that is a better match anyway!

She officially got buyers remorse. You didnt connect enough with her before you separated. Since your initial game is screwed anyways I would suggest that you stay in her life if you can. And seduce her sneaky bastard style.

So if she wanna be friends, let her be your friend. Good exercise to practice getting out of Oneitis as well. Anyways, she might just have told you that she was going out with someone else, or she really is. I wouldnt care too much about that. Girls date a lot of guys at the same time (at least some of them) and it doesnt mean that there is anything serious about it. Plus, you can LJBF yourself and then strike from below. Getting out of the LJBF zone is not easy but it is definately possible. At least it is easier than seducing her if you never meet her.

Or you could just go for the next.