But, on the good side, i learned that you should always set up a plan b, and trust helps out a bunch. Im gonna go to the mall in a min. See my best bro and buy some fancy shit to wear.

In hindsight, kind of glad of the flake, i got no sleep last night and i know my game would be off.

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yea bro i feel you. flakes are part of the experience sadly, but its only worth the emotion you put into it. What hurts a lot is when u really like the girl and think u have it closed, and u find out shes only on a "break" from the boyfriend... and the next day they get back together

Dude I feel you. Flakes can seriously fuck up your self-esteem because you think everything is cool and you really like the chic, only for her to dissapear due to being an irrational [expletive]. For me, it's not so much that they flake that hurts but dealing with feelings of inadequacy or something incomplete about yourself. It makes me feel like "damn, if it was so-and-so, she'd be all over him". And for years I used to go back to the mirror holding my head down, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Now, I don't hardly give a fuck about women, and for some reason they love me. I treat them like shit, I'm quick to literrally insult them, and basically I have no love for them. They're just only useful for sex and social-proof for me to get other women. That's it. I can't really every see myself "loving" and "caring" for a woman. And I think once you adopt this type of attitude you won't give a fuck if they flake, because with every bitch you meet, your mind will be thinking ahead about the next bitch and the one after that and the one after that.

I know where you where coming from on this reaction. The easiest lays for me have been the girls that i dont wanna lay (ie treat them like shit to get them off me but they keep coming back) Hell, my first ex wanted nothing to do with me until i broke up with her and treated her like shit.

With all that being said, i want absolutely no negativity in my life anymore. No Fear, as much as i will agree with your method (cuz it does work), i wanna build attraction and not worry about rejection because i know i am surrounded with women who actually wanna b there because of me, not entirely on catstring theory.

I started up the game again because i was tired of who i was, not because of my lay count. I was tired of being that guy that was just in the background. The one you would hang out with when no one else was around, so on.

So ya, im good with the pain, it shows i havnt morphed into what most the community is turning into. Life is short, i just wanna have some fun with it.

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