| Hello All - My fist posting on the site, thanks for entertaining and any feedback you would like to share.
So I went to this strip club on Friday. I met a girl that of course was way hot. I was with a group of 8 people that evening. I spent 20 min sitting with this girl to start. One of my boys decides to buy me a few sessions with her in the VIP room.
NOTE - Through this whole evening I spent $100 on drinks between me and her. By no means did I throw money around or keep feeding her $$$ for dances. This is a very high end club where your lucky to get out spending less than $500.
Anyway, back to the story. We hit the VIP room, we chat it up. She had a great personality and did I already mention smoking hot?! We talk it up, my game is running strong. Come to find out we have a lot of things in common and I can tell she finds me very interesting. Of course she does her stripper thing for me (Hot, heavy, and connecting on a different level. I have had plenty of stripper experiences in the past. Nothing with such a high mental connection like this). After dancing I tell her I would like to take her out for coffee sometime. She agreed, we exchanged numbers and she kissed me on the cheek.
We head back out to the group and hang out with her over a couple more drinks. After 15 min I find out that my sweater is missing. I tell the girl that Im going to look for my sweater and be back. She say ok, she will come back as well. I look for the sweater for 30 min with no luck. My friends and I decide to leave, so I shoot her a text saying good bye and thanks for the great evening.
About 5:am I get a text from her saying someone turned in a jacket and it might be mine. She said she went to the lost and found to see if my jacket turned up. It wasn't my jacket, so I thanked her for looking. We exchanged a few messages back and forth, all small talk. Think I made a mistake by asking when she worked next and that I have some friends coming in this week and will go see her. Think this is where I F'd up. In my defense she is a stipper and I refuse to get hustled. But, I didnt get the best vibe after our messages ended.
So, whats so confusing?
1. Through this whole interaction, especially in the club, she was very freaky/flirty. Lot of dirty talk but yet a lot of personal type get to know you kind of conversations. On the flip side she played the stripper part very well.
2. SHE HAS A BF. She did say she was not happy and didnt care she was with someone at this time. I didnt think to much of it cause I want nothing serious with her anyway.
3. She knows what I do for a living, but I made a point to spend little $ on her at the club besides a couple of drinks.
4. I thought it was cool she took it upon herself to look for my jacket. But thought our small talk through text was strange. Nothing bad, just didnt get that I got her on the hook kinda feeling. Maybe she was leaving herself open for me but i didnt capitilize and she was disappointed. Dunno... I sure as hell didnt want to seem over excited.
5. Is she trying to make me one of her clients? At the end of the day, she is a dancer. She knows what I do for a living, but I gave her 0 clues that I had money to my name. Let alone money for her to get.
I have not talked to her since the morning text messages about my jacket. What to do next?
Feedback, Thoughts, Opinions - Please share. Thanks.
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