I went on a day 2 with this girl. (Thursday) We had coffee, and talked for a little over an hour. It seemed way too damn casual! I tried to be playful, but she kept finding ways to have a serious conversation. she talked about her exes a bit, and had closed body language the whole time. Then afterwords she asked if I wanted to go to a swing dancing class with her on Saturday, and she would text me the details. She laughed at some of my jokes, and said goodbye with a big smile, and a hug.

I wasn't really feeling any chemistry there. We had a good conversation, it just wasn't what I hoped for. I haven't talked to her since yesterday on our date. Should I call her at all, or just wait for her text? I don't feel like setting up anything new with her, but I'm always down to try new things if she ends up texting me about the swing dancing. So should I call her, and tell her I had fun but I'm not looking for anything, or what should I do?

To sum it all up in six words: YOU DIDN'T CONTROL THE UNDERLYING INTENT

Alright, maybe I am an asshole..... But a chick trying to get in a serious conversation with me is gonna find me asleep or busting her chops for being such a bore! LOL

Really these situations are kind of tough. Its easy to get sucked into the LJBF zone before your realize the date is over. My perferred strategy is saying cocky statements that are too seductive for friendships of course push/pulling with DHV (killer combo). It basically sets up either:

1. Kiss/Fuck Close

2. Never talk again

Either way, you would be happy. She would not be a good pivot! LOL

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