I have been talking to this girl on and off since May. I like this chick a lot and told her that. Through the summer we hanged out a few times and I've kissed closed. I bowl some leagues and she came out and watch. There been a couple times we met at a bar. About a week before I went back to school I slept with her. Since I went to school during the Fall semester I barely talked to her and seen her maybe twice. I try to keep in conduct with her through phone calls and texting. I seen her probably back in October and just a few weeks ago. Both times we made out.

My problem is I can't never see her when I have free time. I know she works all the time, and goes to the gym. She even bowls in leagues and tournaments all the time. What can I do to keep the spark going and keep her attractive to me? I know she told me before she was attractive to me. One time she told me she thought it was a summer fling that's why I didn't get a hold of her all the time. I told her I didn't want to be a fling. I told her not to give up on me and she ok. She also said she wanted to leave me alone when I was in school with homework and studies. She didn't want my grades to slip. Also, told me she had problems with that with her last bf. I received 18 pics since summer and last one came in November. When she doesn't talk to me I don't want to dig in her skin and annoy her with texting her. I realize that women aren't the fastest texters either. I have to wait couple or few hours before I get one. I really don't want to lose this one when I couldn't really be with her. I like this one a lot. I would like to take her out and surprise her. I like to surprise her and be spontaneous. Any ideas?

Last thing I talked to her on the phone few days ago and telling me all the things she's been doing. She goes out w/ group of bowling guys at a bar for there Christmas Party and go to there house to play poker. During New Year's Eve I asked her to come join me. She told me she wanted to sit and relax. The next morning I had a text from her saying she went out to a casino. I was so upset. I still have that gut feeling that she still likes me but also feel she's indifferent with me. During Christmas I know she told me she gotten sick from over working and not getting enough rest. I know she gets some strange schedule for work. Sometimes she needs to be a work at 6, noon, or even 3. Then she doesn't get off until 10. Do I keep on asking her to do something or should I try and wait for her to ask me?

Sorry for the long message and being jumpy.

I don't want to be that begging and needy guy. I feel like I start to beg her to do something.

Thanks for your opinions

Well, from the sound of it, you are that needy guy. It seems like she is controlling the relationship that you have between eachother. She has you wrapped around her finger by deciding when she wants to be with you and trust me, she knows you are trying to seek attention with her texts.

My advice, you are on a pick up artist forum right now, GO PICK UP. I used to have situations like you were i would be strung out on ONE girl. That girl did not give me the time of day until she realized i could have other girls, easily, and i became the target. Besides, if you go out and game, you will meet better girls (GUARANTEED).

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