Back in August I met this stripper, got a lap dance, and after the dance she gave me her phone number (I didn’t even ask for it). We exchanged a few texts but I didn't pursue her that hard because I was just getting out of a ltr.

I decided to text her out of the blue early one night last week and she remembered me. We sent several texts back and forth. She said she was going to New York the next day to work on New Year’s Eve so I said “we'll have to meet up for a drink tonight then”. She said she was packing but would text me later to see if I was still out. I said “cool”. She never texted back.

I'm thinking there might not be enough comfort built for her to meet me out since I only met her once, briefly, and that was back in August. How should I go about planning a day 2? Would it look desperate if I stopped by her club? When we met, I told her that I hardly ever go to strip clubs and I think she liked that.

p.s. Her body is a 10+ but kind of a butter face

Yes, if you put them off too early then the attraction fades.

Also, you never know who she met on NYE...So, with that said, I think its a lost chance. If you text her again then it will make it look like you are desperate and that will turn her off even more.

If she does text you back, then all the better for you.

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

I don't think it's 'off' as much as the dude above me does.

Main thing is you took too long to set up the day 2. The fact that she actually bothers to text back given the situation is the only 'IOI' you need. From there you should have just banged her.

From here I would just go direct and set up a day 2. Where & what really doesn't matter. Either find something interesting she likes doing or just go straight to the bedroom; cut the crap, she'll probably appreciate it as much as you.

This way, you either win or end the game and move on, rather than dying a slow death. You're taking a punt at say 50% chance of success, whereas if you long it out your chances exponentially decay.