Ok so just a little advice i seem to struggle with texting, i get a lot of numbers but struggle after that esp when i get in to the boring stuff like what do you do? can i have your FB etc etc. Any advice? and how long do you wait between text messages? what if you dont get a response how long do you wait before a 2nd text and is there any good messages to get things rolling again?
Finally what if you take a number and send a message the next day and get no response ?

Ok last one, i decided to text one of the numbers the same night last time (pretty drunk) asked if they were in the club I was? which she responded to, then i said "are you taking me home then" - no response! Sent a standard message just over a day after but no reply! This one was HOT too! WOUNDED! Haha, was a good night though... advice please....

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The Big Tone;I hope you'r not the 1 asking boring-raport questions like what do you do for a living? Leave those questions for her to ask you. You shouldn't be interested in what she does anyway(if you're just trying to lay her). Leave those questions for after you lay her.

Well,I know lot of guys who say that if she takes 10 min. to reply to your msg,you should double it and take 20 min.,etc. The faster you reply would make her think you're bit desperate to chat(she's valuable in your eyes)which means you have no one else to chat with(non-preselected).

If you dont get a reply,I usually wait untill the next day to send 1 as if I didn't notice she didn't reply. Don't text her saying,"I texted you last night but...".Act like you didn't even remember that 1st.text.[She shouldn't be that important].

To get things rolling again,send her an interesting(DHV)text stating what you're up to,i.e."I have a great day planned with some friends.We're going to...and have fun. That telegraph to her that you have an interesting life and a peer-group which can be girls(pre-selected).

For the 1 that didn't reply to the "taking you home" text. Well,I guess you didn't calibrate it right(bad timing). Maybe if you'd had a few warm up text before,she might've replied. Plus,I notice that when a guy state something,he's more likely to get a response than when he asks. You kind of asked her if she was taking you home(giving her a mental choice)-and a woman would always opt out when presented choices,options & yes nos. That's why women flake when they feel pressured to act. Rather than ask her,you should've told her or suggest,"I know you're taking me home tonight"-an alpha suggestion.

But once again,texts(eventhough I love them)cannot communicate how you feel-emoticons don't cut it. She cannot see how congruent you are via text(to see if you are bullshitting or not).Better off calling to tell her she's taking you home.[/list][/list]

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For the text messages, don't be afraid to be goofy, flirt, and joke around. I wouldn't do too much serious texting, because, unlike in person, it's kind of difficult to jump from being to serious to being funny again. Keep texts light and save all the real content for in-person or at least phone talks.

For my responses, I usually will more or less match the amount of time the girl takes to text me back. I'm not really strict about it though, depending on what I'm doing at the time, I'll increase or decrease my response time. If the girl doesn't respond, I'll either just not text her for a couple of days or text her something along the lines of "Hey, I gotta head out to work. Think about me so you can enjoy the rest of your day." Texting that second time before she responds might make you seem needy. For no response from your first text, I'd maybe make sure that she'd know who you were in that first text, and if you still don't get a response maybe just move on.

For the girl in the club, it sounds like you were trying to pull off the apocalypse on her, which I feel like needs to be in person. That one is about body language, which does not compute over texting. In a text, I would imagine that shock and awe would require A LOT of previous comfort and attraction, otherwise you might just come off as a creeper. If you try that line again, find her and do it in person.

WonderBeard said it best. Thanks for the sum up. In texts,she cannot read you BL(body language) to see if you are serious about what you say,so she'd just brush it off in text. There are exceptions though

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Great help guys, thank you, pretty much what i expected... keep it coming...

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