so its been 2weeks since i met this girl. she showed up at a party my buddies and i were hosting with her "date"... by the end of the night hes asking her to go and i had her telling him to go home alone.. nothing happened that night though we just chilled in bed it was kind of weird with her being my exs friend and my ex BEING THERE.. whatever were over that.. since then weve hung out almost every day. either we go out with friends, she ends up staying at my place til about 5 am. or we decide to take a night off from drinking and debauchery and she stays at my place until the early morning.. we make out and grope and cuddle and it feels like weve been together for years which is awesome but every time i find myself going for the panties i get the block... the first time was a drunken shot in the dark with other ppl in the room and she just pulled my hand away and said "not now" .. public displays are not for everyone, i get that.. i couple nights later i got her back on to my bed topless. gettin heavy i go for it and BAM she pulls away and says youve only known me a couple of days. Knowing i was actually kind of interested and not just in it for the close for now i let it slide and decided not persue and take it slow today... im a week in at this point of the story and still havent gotten into the pants so i start pulling the LMR tactics i learnt. she pulls away.. i pull away and shut her out , she comes back to me and i go again and she runs her routine again.
She even gave me the "common......" as if i shouldnt even expect it!!!!! shes sticking to her guns and im sticking with mine.. persistance beats resistance .... not in this case. i even had her on my bed she rejected the hand, i put some space between us and turned the tv on and she jumped on top of me and i ran the slide of hand again .. pushed me away so i ppushed her away.. this went on all night.. my next move is the ultimatum its when you say "well either your into me or your not" ... any other suggestions??

Wow-torture(lol). I think we've all had that happen.I think it comes down to a comfort issue-she's not that comfortable with you yet. Perhaps she thinks you'd kiss & tell. You should've eradicated all this in the comfort phase;especially on those nights that yall just cuddled. Talk to her vaguely of trust issues and how much you feel comfort with her since she's not a chatty chicc. Tell her how much you hate ppl who kiss & tell,then that would subcommunicate to her that you're not 1 of them.

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good advice! im going to try that tonight were supposed to have a "movie" night..