I just sent a text from dharam's follow-up-game:

hey trouble, It was randomly pleasant meeting you. I went to an afterparty with my friends, how was the rest of your night? -sniper ps hersheys or m&m's?

She immediately replied:

Sniper! Haha it was really nice meeting you too. We went to the (bar) which was really random and then i went to an a-bar at (apartment complex). hmmm im gonna go with hershey

- I met her at a bachelorette party at a bar. Her group picked me in their game of (find an attractive male to kiss the bride). I started talking to her, and got her phone number. I can't remember much of our comvo...i ended up drinking and staying up a lot later than i wanted to.

Any suggestion? We have finals starting this week and next week, so it might be difficult for either one of us to get together. How would i go about setting up a second date, do i ask "what does your finals schedule look like"

Also i was thinking about using the fact that she picked hersheys. Such as: "ha, you're not interested in things that melt in your mouth not your hand" - is that too strong for now?

Dude you don;t have to neg a girl all the time. If it's going great why ruin it?

This is where people go wrong. Negs are designed to punish, that's their primary obejctive.

hey I ran into the same problem of having exams and trying to set up a day two so I just went with the standard coffee date. Just tell her you want to hang out again, suggest that you should grab coffee at [coffee place] and then ask if either [day1 or day2] works for her. You are still showing her that you are willing to take the lead by stating what venue you should meet at, but your being flexible enough for the tests schedules by giving her two different days to choose from. I think my text went something like:

"Hey I think we should meet up. How about coffee at [coffee shop] either tuesday or wednesday?"

It went great for me, but its just my two cents.

~TallGuy