hey guys could do with some input, i met this girl in the club got her number and we have been txting. it seemed positive until she said i just wna say i have come out of a serious relationship and i am only looking for friendship. But she wants to meet up 1 on 1 is it worth pursuing??

YES!

She is now single and wants to go out 1 on 1 with you. That's near perfect. Now she might be looking for a guy to comfort her and that's fine. Just don't fall into the friend zone.

Go out with her and treat it like any other date. Just try not to get on topic of her ex or relationships.

I don't know what your goal is with this gal. Give us more info so we can help you better if you need assistance.

Yeah, she's newly single, GREEN LIGHT. Go for it.

ye great advice guys, well, i don't want to settle down but would like to date several girls at a time and just get comfortable being around women, and sleep with a few along the way but not in a way that is sleezy.

Perect situation then! When she says she's only looking for friendship she's actually saying she doesn't want a boyfriend not that she doesn't want sex. What she can't say is "I just want casual sex" because she doesn't want to be labeled a slut. Its also considered slutty for a girl to sleep with someone soon after a relationship. But there is a massive void in her life, no man and no sex, that will take its toll on her. Fill this void, don't be her friend, build lots of comfort with her and keep her mind off her ex, that's what she's looking for in you, an escape from her worries. Building comfort will allow her to justify having sex with you as she's not being a slut as she will feel emotionally attached to you and she won't be worried that her friends think she's a slut as they will all be happy she's met someone new she likes. Get in there quick, there might be a few guys in the same position with her, the one she feels she knows best will get her rebound sex. Good luck.