Ive thought about this a few times and wanted to post about it. After I number close I usually immediately send a text "Hey " I was wondering what else do you guys do?

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I do two thing immediatly after a number close if time permits. The first thing that is essential is I don't get her number and run off. I stay there, hang out, continue to build comfort with her. This prevents the likelyhood of the girl flaking. You act like the number is no big deal and keep talking to her for a few minutes.

It doesn't look good when you get a number and then get up to run off. Not saying you do this at all but I am just being very thorough.

The second thing I do is after spending a few more minutes talking to her. I'm going to try to setup a Day 2 while I'm sitting there with her. Keep in mind she is sold on you. She likes you enough that she has just given you her number. Her emotions are stirring and now is the best time to ask for a date not 2 days later on the phone when she's chilled out at home. Make sure to just have a few date ideas in the back of your mind and you'll be fine.

#1. Spend a few more minutes talking to her after the # close.
#2. Setup a Day 2 while she's in the moment.

As far as sending text messages I'll usually send her something fromt he conversation that we both laughed at. This is just an example, but lets say this girl is telling me how she dressed as a pirate for Halloween. I might text her saying "I can't get the image of you dressed as a pirate with an eye patch, and saying argggh matie out of my head. LOL."

Anyways it takes her back in her mind to a fun and funny point of the conversation she was enjoying emotionally. This is very intentional.

Peace and Love

~Jon

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

so basically stick around and setup day 2 from the start when your gettin the number close?

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