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| shot | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 7:41 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:14 am Posts: 7 | | so this girl and i go out to eat later at nite and dinner goes great...great convo clear interest we go across the street to a bar after dinner with a few of her friends have a few drinks and continue to hit it off. sitting at a table her being across from me is rubbing her leg on mine all nite at the bar. i walk her to her car end of nite and she gives me a kiss on the cheek and a half hug i tell her to use both hands and we hug it out....she says shes not a cuddly person....i had a hunch she had a BF cause of her f-book profile and said"how does ur bf deal with u not bein cuddly? i could never date a girl who couldnt cuddle everynow and then." she says yea well he lives 2 hrs away and i havent talked to him in like a week. i said ooo sounds like a stand up guy, u guys are so perfect for eachother... eh well idk...gives me a kiss on the cheek again and i say what u gonna even it out? she says what? i said ever seen the little rascals? shes like oooo i love that movie and gave me a kiss on both cheeks and i said its too bad ur gonna miss out on me having a bf and all...she said dont wry we'll have fun....p.s i went to pee when we were almost finished with dinner and she had paid for it before i got back.....keep in mind check was prolly at least $80...im juss confused....she easily likes me and gave me many IOI's alllll nite but a bf and wants to hangout further what should i do?
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| Mindwarp | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 8:47 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Nov 22, 2009 6:34 pm Posts: 54 Location: Midwest | | This is all beta thinking, just go for her. If she is showing interest in you then he is not what she wants or is doing something wrong. Its not your responsibility to be her moral compass. I mean for gods sake she is telling you she is alone most of the time and doesn't talk to her BF. _________________ Programmer of reality.
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| shot | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 6:00 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:14 am Posts: 7 | | very true i'm going to act like her having a bf is nothing and keep things goin with her i just have to make sure i dont get into friend zone while hanging out...shouldnt be hard...thanks mindwarp for ur advice
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| ego1 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 10:21 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:58 pm Posts: 36 | | I completely agree, I dont' think the boyfriend seems like ANY issue at all in this situation. She's basically telling you he isn't. Just don't bring it up and don't get phased if she does bring it up eventually.
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