ok, here's the deal:

Number closed a HB blonde 8 last friday and texted on sunday to set up a day2 for this friday (tomorrow) at an indoor rock climbing place. At the time she said she was quiet busy with uni exams and would let me know if she can still make it.

It's now the day before, she hasn't got back to me and I want advice:

- Should I follow up with a text or call to see if she is going? or is this chasing too much?
- Should I just freeze her out and act as though I dont care and only resume contact with her if she initiates it?

or is there a third or better option?

Either way i'm going to continue sarging and already have a diff girl coming over tonight (this forum is helping so much )

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The cake is a lie.

well what I would have done was work something out that works with both of your schedules.. If she's too busy this weekend Don't make a deal about it just catch her later and and talk to her and see what her schedule usually is like and work around it.

I think she'll respect you more if you're understanding so be just that and don't wait around and DO NOT CALL. You already put the ball in her court to hit you back, since you did that if you call her or text or even if she leaves you hangin it'll lower your value regardless.

One of the ways, that I do is i hit them up, soon after I put them in a good relaxed mood I'll say I'm gonna be in her area later and wanted to stop by and give her a quick hug before I did whatever I was gonna do over there. Grab a beer, see a friend, see a movie, etc. I've gotten lays and kiss closes that way cause now you don't have the crutch (phone)in your way anymore and you guys are face to face so it could lead to anything. Hope that helped.

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize

Nice idea with the txt-for-a-hug.

So you reckon not to follow up this one and find some new hb 8's. cheers!

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The cake is a lie.

How long do you need to know the girl to do the hug thing.. I mean it seems like a great idea. But if you met a girl at a party, never really kiss closed, but your in the process of meeting her again, is it a good idea to do it? It sounds like a good idea, but only if you already hooked up before.