So I will first provide some background on this girl. An HB 9 and I have known her for a very long time. We have been friends, but withing the last few months we have started hooking up whenever I stay at her house. A few weekends ago I stayed at her house, and I got her into nothing but her panties. She wouldn't let me escalate any further. I tried fingering her, but every time she says "I"m don't do one night stands."

So my question is: how can I get past her slut defense? I have tried some LMR tricks but nothing seems to work. Its obvious that this girl likes me, but she wont take the extra step!

Well, if she won't live up to your expectations, LEAVE HER. Otherwise - Don't let her play with you. Get her aroused FIRST then you jump in.

Srsly, if a girl does that to me I'd leave her and find a more willing chick.

Try Gambler's principle:

Interest your getting - Your efforts = The attraction you generate

Think about that.

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If she said she doesn't do one night stands, tell her it won't be one. Fuck her a few more times, eh? I don't know, if its the best plan, but it might work.

- TD out

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Send me a brunette,
Send a blonde to me.
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See I would of mocked dissappointment.

It would go something like this.

"Okay no problem." (act a little sad as I turn away a little. Which will prompt her to ask what's wrong.)

"You know I thought there was something more going on with us ,but obviously I was wrong. I'm sorry you thought I was after a one night stand. No pressure hon! We're cool!" Then just turn on the tv and chill and watch the sexual tension rise in her. The trick is to be sincere. Do not let her shit test you into an argument. Just be cool. It doesn't bother you. She'll feel like she devalued herself to you. So remember to reward her for her compliance so you can see her again.

Best of luck to you