Ok so this girl I met in university a year a go (never really talked to her much although she is an hb8) started talking to me on facebook randomly and said we should go for a drink, etc. Last week we went out and had a couple drinks at one place, talked, got to know each other better (although we had chatted several times before via text/IM)
I ended up showing her a couple tricks I knew which she liked. After those drinks we went to another bar where her friend works and had a couple more drinks and chatted some more, telling stories and shit, we never really stopped talking once. At the end of the night she walked with me to my auto, i drove her back to the bar to meet her friend who was getting off work, she gave me a hug and got out saying we should meet up again, etc.

So what Im getting at is I believe if im right (ive been in a relationship the last 5 years and just got out of it about 8 months ago so please bear with me) that I need to capitalize on my next encounter with her and try to draw an attraction. The problem being is how. I felt we had a pretty good connection.

Also I havent spoke with her since the morning after our "date" which was 3 days ago. I did this in order to not appear needy or desperate. Keep her guessing kinda thing.

Im motivated to do whatever, I just need some help as my skills are rusty. I was gonna ask her out at school, rather then text or phone.

EDIT: also, on friday night she texted me at like 3 in the morning. All it said was "waaaakee uppp" she was probably drinking (im in university remember) dont know if it means anything, but thought I should add that in. I didnt respond to the msg btw.

Wouldn't leave it too long before getting another meet otherwise she'll lose interest or think you have, ring her up cos you're going somewhere fun and she can/should come.

Was there kino on the previous date? If not you'll definitely want to be escalating this time.

in regards to kino, no not really.. there was a bit of touching here and there, but not alot.l She touched my arm a couple times. I touched hers.

K, so I secured a second meeting time, with the direct indication that we would be going for dinner and doing something FUN afterwards.

Boys, I need help, how do I get this girl attracted to me. I feel comfortable enough to do whatever with/too her I just need help doing it. Remember, Ive been outta the dating scene for a loooonnng time.
Side Note: I havent talked to her since friday morning, and just asked her out again about an hour ago, so theres been about 3 days of us not talking in between.