ill feel you in with my situation and try to make it short. so i have had this target for about a week and a half shes hb8.5, last week i invited her to this house party things went well got tons of social proof, attraction, jealousy plot lines, and established myself as the prize so little to nothing went wrong got tons of ioi's and kino escilation. we ended up going back to the same house to sleep, no kissing but i got her pants and shirt off. so she gave me a back rub and i gave her one back (i always get mine first). we end up talking tell 9am before we realize we should go to bed...

anyways i set up a party to happen at my house this monday she takes awhile to get there but still shows up and is hanging out every one is having a good time what not and she was planning on staying over. she goes to the bathroom while im outside for a smoke and as im walking back in shes on the phone with her friend. i only heard half the convo but i guess my sister who was there heard the entire thing. i guess her friend called her and said that she was in the area of my house and she was coming to get her because she didnt want to go to this guys house alone.(her friends defintily the alpha female between the two of them but shes only like a 6.4 or so.. not interested) so her friend shows up in like 15 seconds before i get the chance to really talk to her and see whats going on and try to talk her out of leaving. her friend shows up and i try to deal with the obstical and i have her laughing for about 20 seconds or so and then she just bails snatching my target.

one im wondering if this has ever happend to any one before? and if they have a way of preventing it.

two i set up a day 2 at 9am the next morning for coffee she came over and we chilled for about half an hour nothing happend. minor ioi's