My sticking point is clearly setting up Day 2's. I think it comes down to me being too set on holding my frame as her chasing me, that I end up acting too strong and ever giving an inch (in fear of failing a shit test) that they feel either I'm a)unattainable (come on, really? LOL) or b) don't feel like I like them enough (don't know if I'm saying this right..).

How do I get past this? Or better, what is your proven way after you number-close to guarantee a second meet up? I need your help boys.

-WorkEthic

You know, I used to have this problem badly when I was first starting out. The best advice I can give would require more information, but here's what helps ensure a day-2 meet up.

You need to make sure that your conciously building comfort with the girl your gaming, and make sure you establish mutual attraction. You don't have to think that everything is a "shit test". I think a shit test and a hoop are a lot different from one another, even though they follow the same concept. It's okay to jump through some of these hoops to establish a sense of comfort. I mean there's a HUGE difference between "Can you hold me drink?" and "If we're gonna hang out then you can't wear those clothes". Shit test to me are unrealistic hoops, that only a dancing monkey or someone who was DLV would go through, and to me they always seem a lot more defined. You want them thinking your interesting and wanting more, as opposed to "I want him because he seems so hard to get." If you don't comly with them at all, then there will NEVER be a day 2.

You want them to feel like your a challenge, but you also want them to have a sense of comfort/fun too. Don't be afraid to just though the little hoops to build trust/comfort.

Only jump though little hoops in the comfort phase of your game though, I can't stress this enough. If you give in to early, before she's decided she's attracted to you, then it becomes a DLV.