I hope Im not the only one but theres something about texting and text game that is just such bullshit. Firstly its too slow. Secondly, it gives you and her time to think, then you think "why hasnt she text back?!" or "should i text now or later?" and all that crap. Not to mention there only a certian amount of content you can get over in a text. Quite frankly i just dont want to have to text girrls. period.

So my question/s in short is this. You meet a girl and get her number.

how do u organise a day two quickly and easily in a few texts?

how do you not use texts?

how do u set up casual phone convos?
and
how would you explain to her you dislike texting, and get her onto a different medium?


(please no one suggest email, its the same thing but worse)

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Very good questions. Hope someone with experience answers !

Well, according to Mystery, you shouldn't do the typical "oh you have to wait a certain number of days to call her" bullshit. She might just lose interest, have buyers remorse, etc. A good way to avoid that is to call her casually the same night you met her, maybe when the bars are closing, etc. Just call her up, ask how her night went, shoot the shit for a few minutes and then let her go.

You don't have to arrange a date or anything like that, the purpose of this call is to figuratively say "it's cool to call me up and chat, even when you don't need anything." This of course, also builds comfort, and if she does want to see you again she won't be too nervous to call you up and ask.

Thats exactly what i thought coz my phone game was shit a while back but unfortunately the world lives off phones.. when a hb used to txt me i would generally not reply, not coz i regarded myself higer value but i didnt want to txt a boring convo that would DLV me and make her lose interest.. unfortunately that came to a loss in some good HBs who figured i wouldnt txt back so i lost communication with them after a while.. so i had to force myself to txt.. and then the short convos opened up or lead to quick day 2s.. i still dont txt to have a convo but its a quick way to get a date

as for mysterys idea.. Thesoupnazi got it on the dot there. call her that night be funny quirky

eg ring!! ring!!
HB: hello?
PUA: hey its me.. mate and I have made a bet.. do you know the longest word in the english dictionary?
HB: yeah yeah!! its antidisestablishmentarianism
PUA: SWEET ill halve the win seeya!
-5mins later

Ring!! ring!!
PUA:pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis!!!
HB:umm what?
PUA: you got it wrong!! it was pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis!!!
i told me mate hot chicks were stupid.. now i won 50 bucks
HB: What?! im not stupid lol
PUA: na just joking.. but anyways you made me lose 50 bucks haha well ttyl!..

anyways what im getting at is the same thing can be applied to txt.. when you txt your mates its not ussually to ask how there day is going.. or whats up?
its ussually like "yo bro i got halo ODST wanna come up and jam?" or "yo bro hayleys having a party next fri.. keen?" so next time a girl txt u "whats up?" say something like "nothing much bored as fuck.. wanna come gym with me i gotta get out of the house".. if she says "ohh na ive got this and that" say "ohh gay have fun with that txt me when ur free yeah? seeya" quick and out of the way, she sees you as a potential hangout mate she wont or shouldnt get mad coz uve given her a chance to hang out with you.. if she says "yeah sure but i dont have a membership?" say sweet ill be there in bout half hour meet me there ill let you in.. now you no longer have to txt her and will be meeting her in 30 mins. so you can create rapport there..

one more thing i learnt is if you txt a chick asking her whats up and she replies "ohh nothing wanna go shopping?" how would you feel.. coz she (depending on the circumstances) wont feel much different than you