As the title says. Me and my friend had a double date. we all had a blast. Saw All about Steve. The girls loved it. everyone was in such a good mood. how should i ask for the 2nd date with just me and her. Should i wait a day, or perhaps ask her tomorrow what she is doing the next day for the 2nd date?

possibly thinking about asking her to go to this new glow in the dark mini golf! then afterwards me taking her for a sundae.


What do you guys think.

if this helps. We've already fooled around at my buds party and had long conversation in the morning for about 2 hours . while she was spooning me. But still felt a little awkward :s (in the morning that is)

Thanks guys !
Joker.ex

To me you seem like a real nice guy. So why are you on this website asking for advice? You just told yourself what to do. You said wait one day then take her to mini golf. The only good this forum does is to let you vent your frustrations. Pay attention to yourself. Do not listen to these dumbasses tell you that you broke a rule. They are retarded. Believe me I have grown over the past 2 years into a man. A PUA is not a man.

PUA's are so stupid they can't see that they are damagiing themselves. Even though they say it in there post.

Don't worry so much and trust your gut. These internet people will not help you by telling you rules. You have to trust your gut.

The real problem with PUA is that everyone one who is a PUA has such low self esteem that they won't trust there gut. So they have to form a support group to figure out what to do. Then they rely on this group for every decision that they make. Which in turn keeps there self esteem low.

The only way to become a man and be a women it to know who you are. The only way to know who you are is to know what to do. The only way to know what to do is to listen to your brain. So start listening to your brain.

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Walk Hard

Wow. That guy above me is angry. Anyway, take it slow. What do you want out of this? Do you want a girlfriend? Cool, then take her on a cute date, don't fuck her, and treat her right. Nothing wrong with that.

Do you want to fuck her? Cool. When you see her pick her up and kiss her. If you like her, your instinct is to probably kiss her/and or get sexual. So do it and she'll love the fact that you don't beat around the bush.

I would take it a little slower when not in person. The worst thing you can do is be needy. So call her 2 days after the date, and make sure you call her while on your way somewhere exciting.(gym, outing, friends, on ur way home, etc) You want to be in a good ood to create attraction. Old rule but it works great.

Call her, be super positive, enthusiastic, and happy. It doesn't matter what you say. I start off with a redarded funny story. I'll tell her I went to the zoo and saw 2 penguins fucking cowgirl style, doesn't matter. Short 5-8 minute convo.

I'll text her the following day with something like, "Hey! I was thinking, what are you doing Sunday? (or any day) I have this awesome idea we should do!"

She'll always respond positively to that. Doesn't matter. I'll tell her to meet me at so and so corner and wear comfy shoes. She'll always say ok, and it's on. Take it SLOW and do not try to build too much attraction and over game via phone/text. A lot of guys fuck up here. Attraction should be done in person on a large level. Too much bullshit to deal with otherwise.

Just make sure to lead the interaction whrerer you want it to go, and you're golden bro!

TREX