Looking for a little help gentleman,

So here is the situation. I met this chick on-line that is gorgious. I'm talking a perfect 10. I was able to get her to bite from my email and eventtually we started texting. We did a lot of texting for the first two weeks, one phone call, and then I left on vacation for a week where phones don't work. While I was gone I sent her a little something at her work so she had a reason to think of me.

Once my vacation was over and I turned my phone on I came to realized it had worked. She had left Me a few VM's and a text. We started texting flirty. It was good. I used some of the stuff I got on here. (Thanks)

Two evenings later we went out to dinner, somewhere else for desert & a glass a whine then eventually back to her place. High levels of Kino and many kisses along the way. It was good.

A few days later she asked what I was doing Labor day weekend. She wanted to get away. I presented some ideas. Then she realized we could do one of them this weekend. We had decided to go out of town to a nearby location for a night. Well, Thursday she sent me a text saying bad news. She wasn't going to be able to go. I started to sense her being less interactive.

Friday, I text her something cute and eventually suggest she stop i to see me at my second job bartending. She says she might. During my shift she replies

Her: "Sorry sweatie @ -------! Hving dinner."

Me: "No worries! I figured u had plans. Still up for something tomorrow night? I think there is a wine tasting at the art museum. Just a thought."

HAVEN'T HEARD BACK... WTF?????

That was two nights ago.

I think she is in one of those "COMPLICATED" relationships. She had told me she has no boyfriend but I think there is something going on somewhere. I am Facebook friends with her and I had notice a few weeks before I had met her she had a status saying " I can't wait for my honey to get home!" Then when I was on vacation She changed her relationship status from single, to: in a relationship, and back to single.

THE QUESTION IS: WHAT DO I DO? I want to text her or facebook her or something because I would like to start the conversation back up. I mean we are in our 30's I know women are going to come with some baggage. What are your thoughts?

It seems like the easiest way is to get her via Email..

From the way you write, it also appears to be more than just looks you see in her.. therefore any bad outcome will hit home harder..

People lose mobile phones - and we all have had a phone break on us..so her lack of response may be a technical error.

Im not recommending you do this: but heres what i'd try.

Email her somthing to the effect of "{it saddens me to have not} {haven't} heard from you in a while" (makes you the victim - envoking guilt)
"i had something special planned for us" (missed out on something romantic - she'll be pissed at herself)

Make it clear that you are still interested in her and would like to continue seeing her..


Although if she really is an emotional cluster bomb; which you will found out eventually.. you might be dodging a bullet early.

Best of luck