I volunteer at a hospital and I met this girl last week who also volunteers (for our

college majors). I'm 19 and shes 24. She's not that fine but she's do-able; what

really throws me off the edge though is the prospect of banging a girl 5 years the

elder of me. I copped her number the first day, and 2 days later we hung out and

I kissed her as I dropped her off. Yesterday, we sort of went on a date, going to

scenic places and eating dinner. There was lots of making out during the day and

she kept holding my hand (I hated it but I didn't really stop it because I didn't

want to make her feel bad). She seems like the relationship type of girl and also

goes to church, but I still thought I could bang because she just seemed very

attracted and horny while kissing. As it got dark, we drove to a dark place and got

into the back seat, where she immediately straddled me and started making out

and touching me wildly. Needless to say, I was sure I was going to bang. BUT SHE

WOULDN'T TAKE OFF HER PANTS AND SHE SAID SHE WAS A VIRGIN, AND

WOULD NOT HAVE PREMARITAL SEX. She gave me some head but that's it. What

can I do? She also doubted my integrity and suitability as a potential relationship

partner (ALTHOUGH I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP ANYWAY) because I will be

going back away to school in the fall, and I like to party, go out to clubs, ETC.

Help!

A PUA sometimes has to give up on doing something. If she had waited so long with her virginity why would you take it away from her and then dumb her? Just get another chick, have sex with her and its grand like. Especially since shes not that great looking as you said. Some of yous may not agree with me but hey being a PUA doesnt mean you have to completely give up on your ex-afc morality and uhm sensitivity?

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jakslip~

Dude,

If she means nothing to you then why try to Lay her? Seriously, what is the point if its just another number to you. There is nothing cool about deceiving a girl thinking she is going to have a relationship with you and bedding her. Any fool can do that!

She's not that hot like you said so who cares. Besides she's held out for 24 years, respect her decision, its not going to be easily won over. Find another girl before you go back.

Do the best thing you can for this girl and leave her alone. Move on.

Jon

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Thanks guys. Lol I guess I was just too caught up on laying an older chick. I'll just get as much head as I can

HAHAHHAHAHA

I banged her today. She was definitely not a virgin!!! Fucking liar

Well obviously you don't heed advice

LOL, this cracked me up big time.

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A bullet shaped hole where the answers should be.

Nah dawg, I heed advice, but I was suspicious that she was lying to me in the first place because when I looked at her and asked her if she was really a virgin, she said yes in a weak tone while her eyes rolled to her upper right, which is indicative of visual construction

Well done then, hate them lieing about virginity like that. high five

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jakslip~

Whats up with chicks saying they are virgins?
I just dont see the point..
For me its a big turnoff. I dont think there's anything hot with being a virgin.
But maybe thats just me...

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

Its probably because the girl wants you to think that you're her first and for a lot of guys thats probably really awesome...

Then again who cares at least you'd be getting some.