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| TheWildThing | PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 12:52 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Apr 15, 2009 2:08 am Posts: 11 Location: florida | | idk wat i did or if shes testing me or if she just dosnt know. lol here are first text conversation on sunday:
me: hey baby(she not my gf)
hb7: ha, hey.
me: whats up?
hb7: dang
me: dang what?
hb7: nothing that was in my outbox.
me: ok i was wondering if you wanted to go to the movies sometime
hb7: sure.
me: how about this weekend
hb7: im hanging out with my friend
me: well we can go one day when i get off work if ya want
hb7: no she can come with us
me: that's cool.
i was planning on bringing my friend for her friend so then today (wensday) i texted her and this is wat she said.
me: hey wats up
hb7: i just got my belly button changed
me: you got your belly button changed ? you mean you changed your ring?
hb7: yeah
me: thats cool wats it look like
hb7: its pink
me: thats cool when did u get you bellybutton pierced? and btw are we still on for the movies this weekend.
hb7: about 4 weeks ago. and idk
me: hows fri night?
hb7: idk.
me: y dont u want to go...
hb7: idk if i can go
me: y did you get in trouble or something?
hb7: no
i stopped there i need a response asap. and what did i do wrong?
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| Bronco | PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 4:32 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:22 am Posts: 110 AOL: amindnich252 | | "hey baby" didn't go over well..and usually doesn't
secondly, you should probably just call her, talk for a couple minutes and feel it out. keep it short and sweet, and ask her to go get a cup of coffee, and ask what day works for her. if she says she'll get back to you, say that's fine and if she does, great, if she doesn't, don't hit her up again. there are other girls and you don't ever want to lose your self respect. _________________ -Bronco
"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker
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| HighAsAKite | PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 9:54 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 13, 2009 9:41 pm Posts: 2 | | Be a little more assertive. Instead of "I was wondering if you wanted to go to the movies sometimes" you should have said "We should do something. How about the movies." Also I wouldn't recommend the movies for a first date, its typical and is always advised against by PU gurus.
In the second convo you kept telling her "thats cool". That seems like ingenuine ass kissing. Its a turn off.
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| Exerio | PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:18 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Wed Jun 10, 2009 4:39 pm Posts: 309 | | I was stuck in text-game for a large amount of time. I literally freaked out when it took some time to get a response, and I always anticipated the worse. Then after a while it hit me: Why the hell do I think about this?
A general rule you should use:
Text game is game just as every other game. You tell her what is on your mind, if she doesn't approve it shouldn't affect you.
I cannot stress how important inner-game actually is. It is the number one reason that any girl will be attracted to you, and if you retreat into your head trying to figure out a "perfect response" you won't get it. A conversation is just a floating vibe, go with it!:)
- Exerio
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| tweeby | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 12:14 pm | |
Joined: Sun Jan 27, 2008 7:56 pm Posts: 662 Location: Citalia Italy | | Fuck this chick is a bonafide prick tease.
You're practically begging for a date. And she's giving one word answers, BACK ... THE FUCK UP and gain some respect.
Here's where most guys go wrong with text game. They make it into some long drawn out essay/correspondence. NO. Text game should be short and sweet.
I ONLY use text game for one purpose now. To check if the girl has got the godamn phone in her little hand. Then I call her up knowing she doesn't have a plausible excuse to ignore me.
Then I say, "So what ya doing... Ok wanna do this it's really cool, blah blah."
With voice to voice conversation they have less reason to flake. You can literally persuade them into going out. Remember they're just dumb clueless puppy dogs. They need and want direction. Run THEIR frame. _________________ *Justice renders the WEAK his due*
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| turby | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 12:23 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Aug 13, 2009 8:02 pm Posts: 8 | | no offense but it comes off a little bit needy, "warm her up first"
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