So i went out last night for the first time in a while and had no intentions of pickin up, just went out to have a good time. I ended up talking to this real cute spanish girl, totally not tryin to game at all. She asked me to come n dance with her so we went out on the floor where we were making out and what not until i lost my friend. I told her i had to go find him, and ended up getin her number before i left. I texted her the next day saying, Hey Ana! Guess who? and she never texted back. I didnt give her my number so its not like she knew who it was (i guess she could have guess but whatever). Im wonderin if i should text her again, or just let it go. N how long should i wait to text her if i do?

Capps ~

Unless you think there is a good chance you will see her in person really soon without texting her, you've really got nothing to lose by texting her again - she either will respond or she won't.

You probably should text her as soon as possible, and don't mention the first text you sent her. Make sure you include your name this time! But don't say "It's Capps from the club" b/c then you're admitting she doesn't know you very well. Maybe something like, "It's Capps, lets dance..." would be appropriate.

When I get a number I text the girl right away and ask her to respond in front of me. Or I give her my number and ask her to send me a text, so I'll have her number. That breaks the communication barrier right away and makes it less awkward to have to respond to a first text a day later.

it might be better to try calling her now. you can't expect a girl to answer a text from some random number she doesn't know (i'm not saying it doesn't happen, i'm saying it's not something you can count on).

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Thanks guys, tried texting again n no reply. No skin off my back, just go out n find a new one this week.

Good news, she called me the last night and said that her texting was busted, but that she had too much fun to forget about the night we had