I have been talking to this girl that I went to school with from 6-8th grade. She was the hottest girl in the class by far, and I was always too intimidated to ever befriend her very much, though we did have mutual friends. Now I am 19, and it has been a really long time since then. We have hung out and had good times in groups of friends, but I tried getting a one on one with her and she flaked. We were supposed to meet up today because she said she had a day off from work. This was the text convo we had this morning.

Her: "Babe I cant go today I'm on my way to work:-("
Me: "K. I dropped my ipod in the toilet, im gona need to cry on ur shoulder about it one of these days."
Her: "Lol im sry"

I have only been dating for a while because I had a long term relationship all through high school. Does this seem like a typical flake? I don't know how much comfort to build because even though we don't really know each other very well we have mutual friends since childhood. Do I try to set something up in a few days or what?

Although your reply wasn't angry it did kinda DLV you.

She flaked and then you say you want to cry on her shoulder. What are you a CHICK?

The fact she flaked on you, is why most girls flake. You've not built enough SOMETHING ...come across as being too needy, yada yada.

I wouldn't contact her. If she wants to contact you, she will and then it will be on YOUR terms.

Decide what YOU want from this and push for it, if you see her again. Man up, and create more gaming opportunities.

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