So I went out with HB8 tuesday night that I met on the net. Spent the evening bouncing from place to place, talking, kissed about halfway through the night, and then several times after that. Had great chemistry agreed to go out again on thursday(tonight). but wednesday I get this in my email:

I'm not really sure what I was thinking/feeling. I know I was definatly feeling confused. I do enjoy talking to you and think your a descent guy. I do know I'm still hung up on my best friends brother. He was the only guy i've dated so far i could see myself in a long term relationship with, and he just wasnt ready for that. I know I need to emotionaly deal with that before I can move on. I'm not sure what else to say right now.
I need to think some things over as to what i'm really looking for in a relationship, because i keep getting sucked into the same shitty situations.

so here's the question: how do you deal with that shit? I'm pretty much at the point where the only thing I can think of is the classic "I'm not like other guys" thing, but as we all know, thats a shitty comeback that is over used. Thanks in advance for any help received

-Purity-

Tought situation. I can't wait to see what the more experianced members have to say. The only thing I can think of is that you better make sure not to act cligny on this.

Just play it cool, you were only having fun no wedding bells are ringing. When she is ready and got over her issues she will avialable, just look elsewhere and continue training and being successful-but by no means wait for her and keep pressuring her.

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yah, I still have my hook in the water, no worries there:) I settled on sending back "whoa, settle down there kiddo(she's 6 years older than me, lol), when did mini golf become a marriage proposal?".. then I shared a story of a similar situation I had in the past(being hung up on an ex). then I explained to her I don't tolerate these weak excuses and she has officially lost a point for flaking today. I'm waiting to see what kind of response it gets..