So I need advice on two parts......

How did I do dodging her shit test and since she obviously lied about having to do something else how do I change that to something positive and still ge tthe date cuz its obvious that she wants to go.

Me:Hola

Lady:hola

Me:whats up?

Lady: not much, getting caught up on email
what's happening with you?

me :I have been busy with work and trying to make some time for salsa nights

Lady: sweet

Me:nice, when is the last time you thought of learning salsa?

Lady: hmm they had a free ballroom night nearby maybe a few weeks ago

Me: oh cool, what is the name of the place?

Lady:I think someone was sponsoring it at a hotel
:so probably in their function hall

Me:thats cool, iv started salsa just as a new thing to look into doing...seemed really fun

Me:in a scale 1-10 how adventures you say you are?

Lady: I think 8-9

Me: thats defenly pretty high, I am going to Ryles club tonight for some salsa dancing, are you up for an adventure?

Lady: (Shit test) I'm seeing off my friend tonight before she flies out for vacation--it does sound fantastic but I have plans haha

Lady: you definitely have to let me know how it is

Me: (dodge) with my adventures it is a bit like vegas, what happens in my adventures stays betwee the people at my adventures

Lady:ahh so you won't describe it to me? let me know what kind of dress I would need to go?

Me:you would wear the one you look best in, just make sure you do not look better then me

Lady:ahh fair enough


Now how do I bring up her going salsa with me again?

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I am novice myself, but your dodge seems pretty good. A bit of humor and mystery. Depending on how confident I am feeling at the moment, I will sometimes play into their dodge.

Her: "I have to see my friend to the airport"
Me: "Oh, where is your friend going?"
Her: "uh... Mexico"
Me: "Interesting, my friend Cindy is going to Cancun tonight as well. It's a shame cause she was my original Salsa partner, but she said I was too good at dancing so she wanted to get professional lessons in Mexico."
Her: "Blah blah blah"
Me: change topic, or if she seems to be interested now maybe fake having to go or talk on the other line to keep in suspense and wanting more.

I do not know if experts consider this strategy good or bad, but I think it illustrates that you know she is full of shit, but instead of lowering yourself by getting mad you turn it into a DHV by implying you had/potentially have other options for dancing, and don't care that she is busy.

thank you, i like that and defenly gives me a good theory to follow in situation like that

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