I've met this hb and managed to arrange a day 2 (she's coming to my leaving ball), but after she went away on vacation. I'm friends with her friends and apparantly she got really drunk pulled someone else and made a bit of a fool out of herself whilst on vacation in a funny way (which is fine by me as nothings happened between us). I'm meeting up with her in a few days for a ball - she goes to my school- and was wondering where to start with her.

Do i go straight into A2 or comfort? do i neg? do i mention that i know she got with a guy on holiday and turn into a neg or best leave it alone?

I'm a bit of newbie and was just wondering how any other of you pro's would reinitiate the convo between us and which stage to start at (using mystery's m3 model)???

any advice from you guys would be really appreciated.

thanks jj

I wouldn't even mention that guy. It just comes across as if you've been stalking her, or like you're already bothered about who she does and does not date, even though you're not dating. Girls HATE guys who are this emotionally bothered. That's why girls typically have flings with jerks because they know, whatever happens they won't call her up and bother her.

Don't neg her. Keep it funny/casual, be the life of the party.

I'd probably say work through A3 and don't forget to kino and escalate to make sure you don't fall into the LJBFs (let's just be friends) trap.

But most importantly keep it casual and funny. She might say things that that will FUCK with your mind, but read her body and your eyes WON'T deceive you.

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