Okay, so I went sarging for the first time in earnest tonight. Generally just hanging around grad parties. It was great, crazy IOIs up and down the street with this one chick (HB8, but frankly, the binary piece of information "Would I fuck her" seems more valuable, so perhaps she was a Yes). She said she loved me more than once, at first in one of those "I love cheeseburgers" ways, and then the delivery got more and more dry, like "I love world peace" and such. Good stuff, make me feel like this was definitely something I should perfect.

Anyhow, I goofed in a major way, because I accidentally gave her my phone number and such (I swear this actually was an accident, part of one of the bits I wrote to be funny and shift to a more sexual frame, which I may write up if it isn't stupid), and didn't get her info at all. Now I am put in this awkward scenario where she has to call me to reinitialize conversation. Two questions:

1) Will it happen at all, or rather, what are the chances? On one hand, I got lots of interest and she seemed to like me, but on the other, I feel like girls just don't do that.

2) Should I have been more aggressive about being all "No, I should seriously have your information", or will I just end up sounding needy or otherwise low-valued? I figure the answer is yes, but putting it into my routine would be quite odd, and asking later may not be a good idea, I don't know.

Thanks for your thoughts

An attractive girl who clubs often is very unlikely to call you if you just gave her your number. Heck, it's even a challenge to get them to return a call sometimes. It happens but things like that basically comes down to luck. To be in a situation of power and control over this, we simply get the phone number and decide when to call.

As for if you should be more aggressive to get the number... yes, but not by much. By changing your routine a bit, you can get the number easily. Something like "hey, let me borrow your cellphone" and typing your number in and sending the call through can work wonders *make sure your phone is not on you*. Or you can change gimmicks and then false time constraint, then ask for the number for a future get together.

However, you can just work your game up until girls ask for your phone number, repetitively. Then you can just exchange info.

Ya, I thought about this, and I figured I would give this a shot. I met the girl at a grad party, so I knew someone who knew her. I went on Facebook, found her and sent her a message (without any of that friend request stuff) that said "You should call me ". It worked, and she called me within about thirty minutes (who checks that stuff that frequently?).

Thanks for the help with regards to clubs. When I get back on campus that is going to help a lot. For now, Day-Game is my priority.

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