Ok so I have a new friend who I am really into and there is an obvious attraction. She send off great IOIs and she responds positivly to a lot of the things I throw out there but my sticking point is the kiss close. I would say that we have been interacting now for about a week and I ran the kiss close that style talked about when you ask "do you want to kiss me? I didnt say you could..." and ended with telling her I didnt say you could. I am totally AFCing it here and need HELP!!! Should I be looking at my inner game cause I am nervouse about the approach? What else can I do for a kiss close?

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Well, I guess you just did the line at the wrong moment. For you being nervous, well thats a good thing. That means that she is hot. Everyone feels nervous from now and then, just dont let it control you.

ITS NO BIG DEAL.

learn those words and let them be your mantra, remember that there's plenty more fish in the sea!

U know of the triangular gaze ? Next time you need the tension building up big, use it and then just go in for the close. Don't overanalyze it and think about it to much. If you are secure and just do what feels natural then you will get the k-close easier than you would steal candy from a baby.

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Let me play it out a little more in detail. I am in a dorm room which is really just a small room with a double bed, desk, and connecting bacthroom that I share with my suite mate. She was laying on my bed (because I have nothing else for her to sit on (BONUS)) and we had lots of kino going. Well we had some major eye contact going on and thats when I used the k-close. She didnt say no (I dont think), but she said something about my shirt which is what we were talking about to begin with. Now that I think about it I probably could have called her out on that becuase she didnt say no. Well needless to say I had my hand on the ejection handle to get me out of that one if she said no.

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