so i have a day 2 set up for Wednesday. were meeting at a Salsa club ( yes i know how to dance, in fact i'm a professional Latin Ballroom Dancer, i've competed and won championships)

the thing is its a group date, shes bringing some of her friends, i need to know the best way to get her more attracted to me, but get around her friends, who i know she will be more comfortable around and maybe even use a shield, plus a Salsa club you have many distractions, and i don't want to end up in the LJBF zone, we have had a couple phone conversations, couple text messages back and forth

she is also leaving for the summer the 19th, i want her to leave with a good impression of me, so when she gets back she would want another go around you know

if you can't tell i'm new to all this


*Edit to add a bit more info*

she asked me to meet her for Salsa dancing on Wednesday, i had met her through my sister who teaches dance at a collage and i went down there because she needed a partner for her final, so thats how we met, we talked for a while that day, and then i saw her again last weekend to do the final with her, then she sent me a message Saturday saying how she was going away for the summer, and if i wanted to meet her for salsa dancing on wednesday

i'm also a singer in a classic rock band

Liderc:

To quote the brilliant movie Hitch, "if she's going out with you, it means she ALREADY LIKES YOU. You just have to not fuck it up".

Since you're new, I'll give you a basic guide.

1) Be the life of the party. Salsa clubs are obviously high energy, so you need to be HIGHER energy. You said you're a skilled dancer, let it show.

2) It's a group, so CAPTIVATE the group. Entertain them, (but don't be an entertainer).

3) DHV - tell stories that portray positive aspects of your personality. Mystery broke it down to:

a) preselected by women
b) leader of men
c) protector of loved ones

4) Look for IOIs (use search- there must be millions of threads about IOIs) once you get 3, shift to...

5) Isolate and build comfort, (rapport) and make her qualify herself to you ("show off" to you positive aspects of her personality) and reward her for them with your own IOIs

6) All this time, ESCALATE KINO. You said that you didnt want to have LJBF. As Ryan Reynolds says in Just Friends, "friends don't kiss".

The biggest over all tip is to be CONFIDENT

Good luck

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