hey, so lately ive been spending my off periods in the school library (im in 11th grade), and ive been gaming up these girls, geting decent amount of laughs and im getting some kino in too. however i cannot # close for my life. recently this has been quite a sticking point for me, even with girls that im already incredibly good friends with that i lost there number(happened twice recently) and im just having trouble.

example of when i was unsuccesfull even when i KNOW she has no problem giving her number to me:

1)see this girl in the library, sitting at the table behind me, i open her by asking her if she knew the answer to one of the questions froma packet i was doing, kept talking to her for a solid 2 or 3 mins than the bell rang and the period was over, the next day she came back to the library and we spent the entire period together. apparently she is my nieghbor and knows exactly where i live and so i tell her about how i happen to go running past her house all the time. period is about to end, im busting her balls for not doing so well on a math test and than im like "arite, gimmie your number(stick my phone out towards her) and your coming on a run with me today" she says "nooo,i cant i have SOO much work to do tonight and i have to go to some religious thing" the bell had rung while i was saying this so we went our seperate ways. she comes the librayr the next two days i keep gaming her both days and she writes on my facebook wall, i get her AIM screenname from facebook and respond to her on AIM. school ended today so i can only get her number over AIM/facebook now. cause i couldnt brewup the balls to flat out just get her number without any gimmicks or anything



im just having trouble coming up with situationally appropriate ways to number close....any help? TIA

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There is no situational way to number close! Look don't make a big deal of number closing. Read her body language, then just do it. Say it seriously and genuinely, 'Hey, you seem kinda nice, we should hang out some time can I get your number?' And if you get it then speak to her some more so she doesn't feel cheated. In short, be the man. Again practise helps, the more number closes you attempt the more natural it feels. x

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