So here's the deal... Last weekend I went out on a date with this perfect 10. Before the date I decided I wasn't going to try to fuck her. I figured she's probably used to having guys slobber all over her and whatnot so i was going to try and play hard to get or whatever because this girl is super hot and im gonna try to date her... so we go out to the clubs and were dancing and stuff and everything goes good until the bars close and she's like do you want to come back to my place? I agreed to go with her (even though now i think i should have made up some excuse not to go or something) So were riding in the car and were feeling all over each other and stuff. Then we get back to her apartment and as hard as it was i decided to stick to my original plan... we basically just went to sleep, no sex no nothing. The next morning we get up and just kind of sit around doing nothing for a couple hours and i end up leaving with just an awkward hug. All ive done since then is just send a few text messages every now and then (still playing hard to get). I didnt want to fuck her because i thought it might screw up my chances of dating her long term. But now i think i should have made a move and went for it. This might be a stupid question but- by not trying to do more with her is it possible that i ruined any chances i had making her my girl?

In my experience, the girls who you want to "date" won't ask you back to their appartment the very first night. And if you don't take advantage of the opportunity presented to you, you might not get another chance. I wonder if when the hotties, or any girl gives you the chance, and you don't, you are DLVing in some way.

Not sure if this is a good philosophy, but I ALWAYS try to f-close first night and as soon as possible - not sure if I'd even be able to not try to f an HB10, but if they do it the first night, then you know what you've got. If they don't then maybe it's something worth pursuing.

Yes that was the perfect opportunity to F-close. U should have pulled the trigger. But no worries just Rinse and Repeat. U have her number right? Have another great night out. Watch a movie and pull the trigger..

MAXXIM