Well the girl ive been texting back and forth, trying to tease and build comfort and attraction. I texted her "lets meet up for 20 min and have a quick drink. that way if you turn out to be scary i can say i have to go take out the trash and run away" (credit to David D).

she then texts back " im sure we can all hang out when i go see [our mutual friend] again. that was a fun night"

I was wondering after i read that that im drifting into the LJBF zone with this girl. and if i am what should i do?

but not to look AFC to her by not responding i texted back "was a really fun night but im not talking about getting trashed. im talking about 20 min for coffee you dork (we're not thinking of alcohol all the time like you =P)" (credit to David D again lol)

well she replied back saying "thanks for making me into an alcoholic lol! well sd is far"

well she seems to still have some doubts. what do u guys think?

Yeah, I guess U R rite. U R gettin into the LJBF zone. She seems in control of the conv., denied ur coffee proposal yet kept u around by tellin u to see her when U meet up this your mutual friend.

U showed too much interest already and any mor einterest U show would DLV U. keep playing C&F w/ her and try to check if u could build some sexual tention. Check her buyin temperature.

I have a friend who was good at turning LJBFs around. But he was good looking and could go under the radar and boom sleep with them and have 2 months relationships.

Dont extend any mor einvitations but C&F could get u invited whenever she meets up with ur mutual friend. And then u could game her again, build some social proof and take it from there. U gotta close her if u can when ever U meet her next because that way U escape the LJBF zone.

BTW wht is sd in her reply?

sd is san diego, which is a good hour drive away from where i live. but thanks for the advice about just being c&f and building sexual tension