First off. My stories always have lots of detail. Sorry it will be so long.
Ok guys I really can't figure this chick out. We meet last wednesday at a club here. We met through friends and strangely (for me) she actually told her friend to tell my friend that she wanted to talk to me. Which I still haven't figured out why because I wasn't being social AT ALL. I was posted up by my friend just chilling and I would say something to him occasionally. So I definately wasn't being social or displaying any good game. Other than standing with confidence and acknowledging others I knew that walked by. And she is pretty cute, a 7.5-8 on my scale. She actually caught my attention when she walked in, but I didn't really pay her attention. So anyway back to the story. After hearing she was in to me I had no choice (in my mind) but to talk to her. I would have been a fool not to. So we start talking and after like a minute she ask me "did you come talk to me just because they said something?" To which I responded, "not just because of that. You looked like you were into that other guy and I didn't want to interupt what you two had going" But I said it in a way that was like, I didn't really care if I talked to her or not. Well we keep talking for a while and the conversation was flowing really easy but was really about nothing. So I asked her "so tell me something about you" and she started doing some serious qualifying. "I'm just about to graduate from school for phychology. Never married. No kids. I'm going back for my masters as soon as I grad." etc. So she was obviously into me. Throughout the night I noticed she would wonder off and go talk to the same guy over and over. Later we bounced to an after club spot where a lot of people go to eat. So we are over there still doing good when she mentions a friend is coming over and quickly she ensures me "he's just a friend. plus he's on 21. I don't date younger guys. We are just friends." I was like "ok cool." Thinking to myself, I have no commitment to you. Do what you want. So when this guy shows up it is obvious he doesn't like me. My instant thought was, ok either he likes her or they used to date and he still likes her. So they start talking A LOT but she would always try to regain my attention. Skip ahead. She's drunk and apparently trust this guy so he offers to bring her home. ( I later found out it's her ex) But before they leave she leans into me and says "please call me, I really really want to see you again. I promise, he's just a friend." I'm no fool but I give her a hug and say "ok, I'm going to call you."
So the next day I text her and said "you know you really made it hard on me last night" and when she quickly ask "why?" I said "because I really wanted to kiss you last night but you seemed to drunk and I wanted you to have a clear mind.
" No response. So later that night I send her a text and let her know we are at another club and suggest she should come up. No response. Keep in mind I've never seen a girl give me SO much IOI's as she did the previous night. Even before she got drunk. The next day I sent her a message pretty much saying "I thought you were cool and I'd like to see you again. If you would like to, contact me. Otherwise this is the last message I'll send you. Hope to hear from you soon.
Take care beautiful
" Instant response "I'm at work but I'd really like to talk to you when I get off" I said "me too. Text me when you get off" "k" she said. So her and her friend showed up later where me and my friend were and we hung out. She had a lot of guys hanging around her and I'm not the type to fight for any one's attention so I just chilled and talked to my friends. But every so often she would come over or somehow get my attention to let me know she was still into me. Smiles, touches, etc. Later that night some really crazy shit went down with her, her friend and some other girls and we had to throw them out the club. (my friend owns the place). So after the club me, her and her friend went to her friends place. It went pretty good. Got mutiple K closes on her. Lots of physical contact, and lots of comfort. I tried to call her the next day. No answer. Later I texted her "are you shy when you're sober? lol" "yea, y?" she says. I replied "thought so. I tried calling you earlier to see if you wanted to get together
" No reply. So the next day, I text her again "My place tonight. Dinner and a movie. I'm cooking but don't worry I can throw down in the kitchen. Is there anything you're alergic to?" "Chocolate" she says. That tells me that she is into the date. So I jokingly said "So the after dinner fondu to get you turned on is a no go? lol
" NOTHING back. So about 3 hours later I text and say "dinner is at 630. Dress relaxed. I want to get to know who you are and I want you to be comfortable
" Once again. NOTHING. So I'm like whatever. I did my own thing. Well about 1015 she texts me and says "I'm in (the city where I live). What are you doing?" "Chillin. Where are you at?" "my friends house" so I tell her "you should come over" once again... N O T H I N G!!!!. So I'm like man whatever, fuck this girl. So I'm like she's on freeze out and I didn't hear from her until 1030 the next night, which was last night. She text me "what are you doing?" So this is where I am now. I didn't say shit back and now it's 7am this morning. Any ideas what to do? I know I may have texted more than I should but then again I thought we had some good comfort and rapport going on and it wouldn't seem needy. And even when she left her friends house on the last night we hung out, shes like "I really like you. I'm going to call you. I really am. I'm sorry I got out of control but I got too drunk. I'm not normally like that so please don't think that's how I normally am. I really want to hang out again."
What do you think guys? Help please.
CHAT