After I have sex with them for the first time, they all ask me if I've been with a lot of girls. What's the deal with this? What does it mean? What am I suppose to say?

Wow, it sounds like a question based in insecurity. My general to anything like that is "Sweetie, don't ask questions that you don't want to know the answer to." I have never had that one backfire on me. I would suspect that the key to the answer is all in how you say it. I always say it in a concerned tone, like I'm protecting them from themselves. After saying that QUICKLY change the subject.

On the other hand, you can tell them the truth and react accordingly. It's all in how you want to play it.

Good luck, it's not an easy one.

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If it's after sex then it's possible that you were really good and they think you've had a lot of practice.

It's also possible that you moved a little faster than they're used to and they are worried that you move that fast with every girl and that you are a player like you said people seem to think.

I'd try to figure out which one it was by jokingly saying, "Why, was I that good that you're wondering how much practice I've had? " and then seeing what her reaction is. If she kind of agrees, then you can just be happy that you're good in bed and it's a selling point imo, women say I'm good in bed, so I use that confidence and knowledge to seduce more women. If she says something else, then you know why she said it and you can do whatever it requires to stop it from happening if it's a bad thing.

yeah I agree with the above post but it could also be the opposite if I have sex with someone that is shit or get a blowjob that reminds me of the first bj I got in highschool (too much teeth not enough tongue lol) I don't want to upset them so I ask have they been with a lot of guys knowing (or atleast thinking I know) that they have not it seems like a nicer way than saying you havn't been with many people have you and have her know I was not impressed with her performance whereas if the sex is great I either just go "HOLY SHIT that was AWESOME" or just collapse on my back and deliberately breath hard so she knows how great she was.
So it could be you were good or not so good trying not to hurt your feelings if it happens again I suggest you just do the normal thing and ask her to explain if you don't understand afterall coming from her mouth it would be much better explained then anyone on heres theory.
But this is my opionion on it.

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There are few options, either u didnt used condom and she is hoping to comfort herself that u dont have lots of expirience or at least that if u do that the first no-condom exception u make is with her.
Or if you used condom she is asking because she wants to know how big is ur knowledge-base so she can guess if she was good for u or no,
Or you was average or lousy and she is interested to know how small expirience you have so she can know if u can change to better with time or no. - thats not very possible
Or most probably - she is just saying something stupid so u two can continue talking due to an awkward silence moment - bitches do that a lot.
Or im not sure if it works the same way with women - but when i find out a girl has a big milage on her engine im a bit disappointed she is a slut if i acctualy wish she do be something more than one-two nights stand.So its possible she asks if u have been with many girls because she considers you for something more serious and its automatic curiousity to find out if you are a serious boy or a player(mujeriego).


Examples for what to say:
"Not more than the normal acctualy, im not that easy to get into bed, but with u was hard to resist, afterall a perfect body, sense of humour, sexy smile and the sweet noises u make?omg i think you gonna get lucky 1 more time"

"You mean today?Not a lot.. some" - Borrowed from Friends, Joeys answer on the same quesiton. - Then u go with some joke.

"You've gotta make me breakfast before we get to so much details"

"If you want to do it again talking about my ex girlfriends its not the way to go"

"Why?If you want to invite a friend of yours we should get to know each other better first"



"No i have been maximum with 1 at a time"

"Ladies first" and when she says just say 4 more, as she is hiding at least 4 counts from you."

"You asking about the number?Im not even good at remembering phone numbers and they only have 10 digits"

Like other guys suggested, is best to not be the first to answer that question if you care about the girl.

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