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So I read a lot of PUA stuff, but apply very little and I think that is what has got me into this problem (I'm a college freshmen and summer is coming up):
1-I know from her friends that "she was interested", but at this point I'm either close to or in LJBF zone.
2-But, she never initiates contact, which is frustrating
3-P.S. I don't have much game and that's why I did not pull the trigger with all the IOIs when I did have isolation
Problems marked above from your post:
1-Don't listen to her friends advice, you know whats good already do not need anyone else telling you otherwise
2-SHE*? It should be you INITIATING contact. Your not at a strip club, why should she be all over you without you showing some feelings/desires first. Make some kind of forward move, itll make a difference. Keep in mind not all girls are whores, they may be conserved at first to see "how your taking the situation"
Let me tell you, because of being stupid and blind, i ran out of time to work with some girls because of letting it go too long, not making a move, or not caring to...or even being unsure. Get playful with her and see how she responds, if she responds/plays along theres your proof you need, also it'll let her know its cool for her to get down like that with you without you later initiating the motion. Like breaking down a brick wall.
3-Cant pull the trigger when your scared or nervous
My overall advice, is if you hang out with her again, finish her...finish the job you started. Otherwise shes going to think your fucking nutz for not making a move on her after being out with her so many times....SAVY?