So I went to the club the other night and had a few drinks....after failing 10 times I approached a group of girls... all 8 or 9s atleast... I just went up there and didnt even have a target or a plan.. totally improvised (this was before I even found out about this community or any tips that would work in a group situation it just came out naturally!) So anyways I went up to these girls and introduced myself and talked to each one and was witty and made them laugh and talked about how I am an economics major at UT-Austin blah blah.. this girl had a tattoo which was Sanskrit (Hindi language) and I had a necklace that has Sanskrit written on it (Aum symbol) and show it to her so that made me more interesting to her because seriously how many guys are sort of in to spirtuality and all... and she was to so i guess that was a good thing.. anyways her friend just passed the phone to me and I dialed my number in there because thats what I assumed i should do.. then they were leaving so i just said bye and whatever... 3 in the morning i get a text from that girl saying "hey I noticed your number on my phone...so here is my number"... so i took that as a good thing and called her the next day.. she hung up while the phone was dialing... i called her again and same thing then i sent a text message that read "?" and tried calling her again and she didnt even pick up and texted her back and said "thats cold".... now I dont know I thought my game was good and everything why didnt she pick up? It made me confused and made me go back to my insecure self again... maybe its my looks? i dont know i hate it... I am complete afc newbie with a little bit of natural ability in me...

it's not your looks, i recomend that you read about game, there is a free guide called player guide, there is some good material there. you can also read a book like magic bullet, that book keeps it simple and covers more than any other. do not pay attention to just one girl in particular. lear the basic stuff and go and practice. You'll start to get it in a couple of weeks.
also you said you tried to open like 9 sets, and you crash and burn every time, so focus on opening first.
i hope that helps

M8 , when u nclose be sure that u get ur name in there, not just ur phonenr. for all u know many guys gave her their phone nr and if she drank to much or something during the night then maby she hasnt great track of which nr is urs and which isnt.. Dont spam her phone, 2 calls max, and if u decide to use texting, dont send her some short ?, there are plenty of simple guidelines to what you should text if u decide to use that. (look at the post Texting for link)
Agree with rulo, looks only get you so far, its ur game thats decide whether u pick the girl up or not.
Check DaveDeAngelo out (attraction is not a choise) some good reading, also comes in a 6 pack dvd "double you dating".
Try to read up a bit and u will start to se which patterns u have used/using and how to shape it all =)

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thanks...im gonna try to download this stuff .. and anyways i did put my name in there so she must of went through her phone and she had the decision to give me her number or not and she gave it to me.. now i think back when she texted me 3 in the morning i texted back immediately asking what they are doing and i guess that may of freaked her out or some sort of test probably made me look needy and what not... i should of just ignored it and eventually she would of called me or i would of just text a message in a few days and try to initiate a text convo then try to move to phone .. i think what it is that i failed the "shit test" i think that what yall call it..