i already have another post in here but this is with another girl and another situation so i though it warranted a new thread, i also posted some of this in mid-game

alright so im 16 and this will be my first real date. at first i was thinkin the mall to do some shopping for me, if conversation isnt going so good we can go to a movie or something like that. is the movies a good idea? if so what kinda movie should we see?
also there is a pet store across from the mall, good idea to go over there to check out the animals and what not. please bare in mind im only 16, i dont have my own car but i can drive. what about inviting her to my house, everythings free there haha

Shopping is good. I mean it can be good rapport and comfort. You can also neg her for some of the clothes she picks up. The key is to be playful you can also be goofy like when she goes to a girl clothes shop you can just grab any item and just say "does it look good on me?" be playful with your delivery.

As far as i know Movies arent very good and a bit cliche. The only situation i can think of is getting like a large popcorn and put it on your side of the chair so she has to lean across to get to it. I dont usually go to movies because there is no communication and a date is about communicating and sharing informations about each other i mean think about it a movies just dosen't do that.

Be careful about inviting her back to yours depending on how well you get along. I know some girls can see that you are escalating this "relationship" to fast and can backfire on you.

okay going to the mall is great. As long as she has to shop as well. I mean if she isn't going shopping then she'll feel like she's just following you everywhere you go.

On first dates I like to go to starbucks or a coffee shop. That way you can sit down and talk. Or I like to go to a comedy show. You can find cheap ones, you just go to look. It all depends on the girl. Also never pay for a girl but i'm sure you know that. Cause once you pay for her she'll have the upper hand on you.

NEVER NEVER NEVER!!! EVER go to the movies on a first date. You won't be able to talk and communicate. Then as well the only thing you can do is kino. Unless you feel that she is that comfortable with you to cuddle or something then do it. Rarely does a first date go well at a movie. Really if you go to the movies and not do anything like cuddle and kiss then she'll just think of you as one of her friend that took her to the movies.


I hope that'll help you.

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alright thanks so much guys! if i could get some more feed back thatd be great, i was already pretty sure the movies were a bad idea but thanks for clearing things up. ill be sure to post back on what happens. i already told her that we're gonna hang out this week but i didnt get specifics. i told her this over msn on sunday and since then i havent talked to her. should i call her or wait till i see her at school

alright thanks so much guys! if i could get some more feed back thatd be great, i was already pretty sure the movies were a bad idea but thanks for clearing things up. ill be sure to post back on what happens. i already told her that we're gonna hang out this week but i didnt get specifics. i told her this over msn on sunday and since then i havent talked to her. should i call her or wait till i see her at school

You should meet her you'll get a better reaction in person.

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alright i was just thinking about calling her but i guess ill wait out, im not sure how long i could carry the conversation for over the phone, especially sine we havent had much contact. hopefully ill see her tommorow but if i dont i think ill call her. its also kind of hard to talk because we dont have any of the same classes so the only time id see her is between periods when everyone is rushing to class or possibly after school.

ok i finally talked to her today cause my teacher wouldnt let me in my class. after talking for a bit i said you should meet me at the mall tonight then she said something along the line of ohhh the mall. im not sure if it was a good or bad reaction. should i have asked differently, such as "im going to the mall tonight you should come with". anyways she didnt give me a definite answer but she was asking if i had a cell or not. i told her i had no minutes on it and she said she'd talk to me on msn but i think im going to call her.

edit: ok well i just called and it rang to her answering machine so i guess ima have to go with option 2 aka msn