So afew months back I run some game on a brazilian waitress at the hard rock cafe, shes polite and responsive and I go back finish my beer and come see her before I leave. I ask her when her shift finishes and if she wants to go out for a drink after, she says shes not sure when she can leave and asks how much longer I can stay. I dont want to wait around for her so I go, but leave with her email address.

I email her, she emails back, I email her back suggesting maybe we go out some place. She does not reply to that.

I see her again this weekend and ask if she remembers me and she smiles and we chat a bit again. It turns out shes been on vacation for 4 weeks and is now back in town. She has to go serve sombody and tells me she will be back in a minute, I dont wait and go to the bar for a beer. I come back before I leave and ask if she is working next friday. She says yes, then I tell her I will come by to see her and tell her about why she should not move to paris (she said she wanted to) and she says 'i'll look forward to it'

I will turn up late next friday, but I am worried if I have to wait for her its a lowering of my status. My approach anxiety was so bad last friday when I spotted her I felt like being sick. Shes always friendly but has to be I guess because I am a customer.

I need help with these points

What is a good way to isolate her after work that non threatening?

I am worried she might think I am a creep if I turn up next friday even though I told her I would come!##

If she asks me to wait should I waut there ir tell her to meet me somewhere close by?

First off, Brazillian and Colombian women tend to be outrageously flirtaceous by nature, yet often very prude due to a strict Catholic upbringing. This aside here are my suggestions. It would be in your greatest benefit to DHV to her, from what you have written you may have come across a little less than where you would like to be. To answer all of your questions, I would first find out what time that bar closes, just so you have an absolute latest time. Then I would get my friends together, attempt to get some girls too, not necessarily ones you wish to get with but some to bring you up in her eyes. Make up a BS excuse if you want and tell them you all have to go out next friday. Make plans to go to the hardrock first for some light food and drink and then to another nearby bar. While there generally ignore the waitress unless she approaches you or you "mistakenly" bump into her. When that happens quickly drop some fluff and then drop a false time constraint due to other plans you have. However, before leaving tell her you and bunch of your friends (point to the guys and GIRLS your with) are heading to whatever bar right around the corner and she should come by after she gets off work. Guage her response and then adjourn to your next location, if all else fails try some game at a new girl at this new bar and enjoy the mock celebration with your friends.