Hey, been lurking around here for a good bit. Im quite shy but I have been reading around a lot and trying stuff out. However, I feel the weakest part of my game is my closing.

I went to some apartment party (Im in college btw) and was having lots of fun and talking to quite a few girls. At one point I had this one girl isolated and just had been talking to her, kinoing, and what not. She definitely seem very interested. However, I really don't know how to close. What are some good techniques to get her to come back to my fraternity? I think this would be a little easier earlier in the night but it was already like 2 or 230 and I really did not know what to say to get her to come back.

Anyways, thanks for any help

oh also, i got her number and name. nothing happened last night and we actually didnt even have a chance to say bye. How long should I wait until I add her on facebook? How bout texting her and inviting her and her friends to another party?

ask her if she likes nachos.

then tell her to come and cook u some

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huh?
i added her to facebook today...do you think just texting her and opening with "do you speak txt" is a good opener?

Call/txt her and ask if she would like to come over for dinner. Tell her you're gonna make *insert food here* and would love it if she joined you. Then when she gets there, act like you realized you forgot some important ingredient and need to run to the grocery store for it. This does 2 things. First it gets her to your place, and allows her to be comfortable being there, since you wont be trying to put any moves on her between the time she gets there and the time you go to the grocery store. Second, it creates a time distortion by making more memories of you and her. Most couples only go to the grocery store together after they've been together for awhile, so it should also even make a bit more of a connection between you and her, which makes her feel more comfortable with you. Then when you get back to your place, it'll feel to her like she's known you for much longer than she really has. Beyond that, check out other posts on here for advice about closing the deal from there.

Oh and to help make it more low pressure, say something like "Dress casual, we're just hanging at my place anyways and there's really no need to try and impress me. Besides, i wouldnt want you to get the wrong idea ;P" Use a playful tone on that last part, kind of like she's the one coming on to you.

Hope that helps!

If you're out with her again on a night out, and it's all gone well, ask her if she wants to come back to see the puppy you're looking after, that it's a cute little blonde one with massive eyes, and about this big (size it up with your hands). If she doesn't come, tell her she must be a heartless puppy hating sadist and walk off; Otherwise, she'll swoon at the fact you've got one at all and probably get way too excited.

Then when she's back, walk into the living room, gasp loudly and say "Shit, someone's stolen Thor!" or some equally God-like inappropraite name for a tiny little puppy. At that point she'll either laugh and you can grab her anyway, or - if she's nuts - will flip out, throw a tantrum and walk out complaining about your duplicity (this is highly unlikeyl! ).

Either way you're a winner! And just as proof, this got me the girl I'd been chasing for the last three weeks back home with me Saturday. It obviously rquires the whole cocky/funny style approach!

Dude all you have to do is just ask her back. If you have managed to make a connection there and even whilst you have her in the comfort zone you can keep her attracted then it is not an issue. If she starts saying thinks like "oh..i'm not so sure", just say "hey I'm only asking you back for a drink, that's all...it's not like i'm asking you to sleep with me, get over yourself". Make sure you say this in a playful way though because if you tell her to "get over yourself" too seriously it won't be a neg, it will be just extremely rude and she'll take it the wrong way.

If you have worked the girl properly though she will likely be the one to ask you back to her place, whether it be for "drinks" or she may even just say "come back to mine" and not give you a reason. Chances are you're gonna get some anyway though if she asks you back for a reason or not... if you keep play your cards right lol.

Hope this helps x

Drive home while talking and keeping her busy like you're losing track of time. Then when you arrive act like it's no big deal.

Seriously this works

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get an ant farm, or something wierd/fun/funny, and always have things to talk about for at least a half hour to keep her mind off sex, and dont go straight to a movie, if you do put in embarrassing home movies.you have to get her back to your place with out her knowing or thinking you want to have sex with her, that way when her friends ask where she went she doesnt look like a slut

example1: Hey OMG this might sound lame but i just got this ant farm For a Bio experiment its sooo cool actually, you ever seen one before? cmon lets go check it out and make a pizza!

Example2: hey lets get out of here and head to my place?

Now not only does example 1 SOUND more fun but now she isnt going to your house to fuck shes going to your house to see your ant farm and make pizza...So when her friends ask what happened last night she doesnt say well we went back to his house....and....well fucked, see she looks like a slut. Now the case is she went back to your house saw your ant farm, she then relays stories to them about it then tell what a nice guy you are for making her pizza and eventually letting her stay the night... look now shes not a slut she just went with a cool guy and had fun