A little background first:
i've spent about 45 min in comfort..chemistry was awesome..very intelligent girl..we both were into each other. she happily gave me her number i told her i could call around six tomorrow blah blah..went into this whole funny role play routine. I call the next day at 6 (as i told her i would) but no answer. i left a message "this is Europhreak..I'll talk to you later".

she texted back at 11pm (sat night)

hb10: I'm sorry i didn't call you back, i was very busy. How are you??"
me: I'm great!. u get minus 5 points
hb10: haha, how can i make it up?
me: tomorrow (location). you get coffee.
hb10: I don't think i can tommorow, i have so much homework
me: cool, we'll get coffee when we're both free.


what is my next step? this was last night.
i figure i'm not going to call today at all and text tommorow with something funny.

what do you guys think? please give me some feedback...was my text game ok? how would i improve? what is my next step?

after "I don't think i can tommorow, i have so much homework" You should have not replied to her at all or just replied her "You better be worth it "

how do i re-initiate?

the overall interaction went well, it could have gone better in my opinion though. she deffintly seems into you. this is probably what i would have done(i root alot of my responses with sex, so this might not be the style yoru going for) thee diffrent routes i might have taken it:

A-when she said sorry and that she was very busy, i would have busted her balls on that. probably siad something like "excuses, excusesss. theres no such thing as being too busy for ALLL this. just admit it, your overwhelmed[/intimidated] by how attracted you are to me "
b-when she asked how she could make it up, i would have brought a bit of sexual tension into the situation: "well theres this one way...but, your too much of a good girl to be any good in bed, so ill just let you get me some coffee tomorrow at XXXX"
c-when she said she doesnt think so because she has too much homework: "uncertainty is very unattractive, ill let you slide this time, but next time your gonna get a spanking" or "i almost wanna feel bad for you, but than i realized your teacher probably hasnt gotten laid in like a trillion years, so shes trying to fuck all of you, only with homework. you should let her know for future refence though, i got that area covered "


again these are off the top of my head rough ideas that shoudl be phrased slightly diffrently to tailor the situation. also i take a diffrent approach than it seems like you do. hope they help.

about re-initiating- theres no need to try use a fancy opener or method for reopening, she seems into you, a simple hey will cut it, if you wanna use something diffrent you can open with something like, "i just met[/saw] your twin" or like "i know you cant stop thinking about me, so i thought id say hi"...or my personal FAV "made you look"

nudude787 - thanks' man. I LOVE IT!hehe


re-initiating..I know she's studies chemistry..i was thinking about "Hey little chemist....blah blah)

but what?
hmm. i want to create intrigue.

how about:

"hey little chemist, I saw a .... and it make me think of you, so I thought i'd say hi.

Another option: Build value by telling her you're meeting with some friends, business partners, interview for XXXX, whatever - and that you're free afterwards for a bit. Give a location and a time, set the stage, people are mirrors, they're 10 times more likely to externalize responsibility and run with a plan on the table rather than developing one themselves.

Option II: Be straight up and displace the suggestion to her. Hey, my phone's been off - been off the radar for a bit. We should meet up like you said, what works for you later?

Option III: Cocky funny - "Listen, if you don't stop texting me I'm going to tell my husband to kick your ass, lol;) Let's meet up later - (leaving the suggestion open ended should elicit a response that works for her without actually having to ask a question, her response will provide new material)

Happy texting, dukes.

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(this happened today around noon)


me: Hey little chemist, i just saw this thing..it totally reminded me of you
hb10: LOL! thanks

(it kinda backfired as i was hoping she would respond with WHAT?)

me: So, from meeting you before you actually seemed like a good conversationalist. Is that true or were you faking it?

hb10: i don't think you can fake it. LOL. i'm actually kinda smart

me: Never said you weren't, but you've been disappointing me lately

hb10: what? why?

me: well, we had such good time on friday, just had my hopes up i ..guess. U seemed interesting, i'm curious to see if i'm right.

hb10: I'm really busy when i have school

me: that's cool, i'm really busy for the most part but next time i'm free maybe i'll give you a call and we can talk some more.


(1 hour later)
hb10: Deinately. You can text me whenever too. I can text during class LOL

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so i think it went really well:
one more thing. she lives pretty far away..like 45-1hr away. so i can't be like let's meet for coffee in 10 min...etc.


ok, so what should i do next? when to text next? what to text?
i don't wanna call because texting is much more safe...i'll fuck it up somehow over the phone...so i rather text...at least for now.till we built some comfort.

thanks

Hey mate its crosshair, let her long for u, for acouple of days or so. Let her msg u, if you keep on msging first then you are making it too easy for her. Give her 3 days or even 4. If she dose not call or msg then she is not interested, but you could use that to msg her and bust her balls for it. Be then man dont be a pussy. If you call tell her say "i need a females opinion on somthing, my mates and I want to know what do u do if theres a girl who u want to see again and u are the only one who calls and she never does, what does this mean"?

She will answer it with all these excusses whith that the girl dosent like him and blah blah blah. This allows you to cut her off and say so whats your excuss for never calling or msging me? (Say it with a funny, light hearted manner or she will tell you to fuckoff) Dont be an AFC and never chase her cos, PUAs never chase girls, girls chase PUAs.

For more advice PM me.

IMO, i think you showed to much interest in her and after readin i thought to myself, this could easy turn into the string theory. watch you don't show to many IOI's and don't forget to keep up the neg's, you can get away with even more when texted, don't be afraid to go a lil bit meaner and just put at the end..she'll still be like but she'll know you were jokin.

overall, everything else seemed good. keep goin mate.
-Teen

i texted HB again today, exchanged several sms(s)..it went very well, she told me how she got a black eye..i busted her balls for it etc..this was in the morning.
I called later that night 8pm and she didn't pick up. So i don't get it. she said "definatly we should talk, or text me anytime" yet when i call she doesn't pick up or call back. WTF??.

Should i next her?.. i really can't since i didn't do anything with her yet hehehe. but what's my next step?. could she have a boyfriend?...while in the set she made SURE i knew that "SHE'S SINGLE".

Should i simply forget about her?. I don't get it because texting goes so well etc but i can't get her to pick up the phone. i tried twice so far. first time she texted back 3 hours later that she's sorry and didn't have time to talk and tonight nothing.

let me know what you guys think.
thanks

So today afternoon i get the following text from HB10:

Hey Babe, I'm so sorry i forgot to call you back last night. I fell asleep watching blah blah..Lame I know. might be coming to the city soon. Maybe i'll see you again.


I waited 3 hours:
Me: no prob. i'm the same way about Sienfeld


I know. my response was lame ...or was it? i simply gave her a cold shoulder for not calling me back.

what do you guys think?
what to do next?. should i text her on monday? with "My weekend can beat up your weekend"?. or something similar.?

thanks

sounds to me like u need to erase dat girls number man... sucks cuz u sound like u into her but to me its fishy when she dont pick up but she TEXTES u back! hmm... girl sounds like a playa u dig? da rules say u should erase number after 2 missed calls anyways so dont break them n dont catch feelings for this stranger

Mate call her again one last time if u get nothing then instantly ditch the number.Remember, she is only a girl and if she not into you then itis not a rejection but it proves that she must have bad taste. Cuz I can only imagine you would have taken her on a rollercoaster ride to fuckville. If u ditch the number and she messeges back an hour latter, say who is this i dont know this number and then let her prove herself to you. Good luck... crosshair

NICE!. i like that cross hair. awesome advice. i'll do that with every flake from now on. haha

No probs mate give me a pm so we can keep in contact