ill make this short and easy to read for ya, ok so i meet this hb 9 at a boating thing i do every week. i talk to her the whole ride to the river. (1 hr). i use dhv stories w/out being too cocky, i notice a couple mediocre IOI's establish myself as alpha male, used minor negs, maybe shoulda used more.
we're in different boats but talk more on way back home.
go 2 days later meet her with people swimming, established more alpha male. first clue- offer her to wipe something off my back, she dont want to. try to swap #s but she only takes mine i dont have hers (second clue).

i tell shes interested in me, but 90% sure shes not calling at least this week.

normally i would not care so much, and drop her @$$, and move on, but just moved to this very small town, and quite literally, she is the hottest girl i've seen here yet.

2 questions (consider shes christian)

what could i have done differently,
and next week when we boat what should i do (without seeming obsessive or possibly desperate)

Don't ask for her number again.

What did you want her to wipe off your back?
Perhaps there was a reason she didn't want to wipe it?

Well when you swapped numbers, thats what you should have done, just explain to her how you don't answer numbers you don't know and ask for hers.


Or when she wouldn't give it to you just joke around and say, "ok no worries, but you do know if you gave me your number I'm not going to break your heart."

Perhaps the negs put her off? I hope they weren't insulting ones. Maybe she didn't like your dhv stories?

If she is interested why didn't she give you her number and if your going to see her next week, don't stress it too much.

And if she's christian just show up with a cross around you neck... haha
I would never do that, but if she is that hot maybe its worth it?