i've been in a gruop with this one girl i really like, a bunch of girls are in the group, and i've been giving two girls in particular more attention. but i really want the one. i find myself negging her a lot still, and poking fun and stuff. but i'm pretty sure that she may like me but i dont know when i can just stop doing all this gaming stuff and just chill. i'm worried if i stop negging, or making her laugh all the time then i'll lose her


as weird as this sounds the other nite my whole group went out to eat and this girl sat next to me, toward the end of the dinner she was just talking to other girls doing her thing and i was just like sitting there next to her, and i got this natural high and felt so calm and relaxed it was amazing. but i still worry that when i'm quiet = losing her

You can never let your guard down or they'll walk. Look at Chief's post about The Shit Test Everyone Fails.

The trick is to not have your guard up ever. To be you... without restraint. That way, once you're in the relationship (if that's what you're after), 3 months down the road, you're the same dude she met at Day 1.

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