Ok so heres the rest of the story.

I work with this girl (18) I'm 31. I've expressed interest in her and she in I. We even went on a dinner date last saturday. All went... ok... but just ok. Heres how the date went. The age difference doesn't seem to bother either of us. Also, she comes across as a "good" girl but I found out she drinks, parties, etc. I really want to "f" close this one if possible.

She met me at the restaurant, I was a little late intentionally to make her wait for me a few minutes. (good move??) When I got there they sat her in this booth style table that was big enough for 6 people. I moved in a little closer to her, maybe one person away and we talked a lot, good little convos about what her dream job was, places we have been, some likes and dislikes, etc. (I guess in retrospect, I didn't really DHV that I can remember) Anyway, I wanted to attempt some kino so I was telling her some stories about me and my life so I would occasionally lightly grab her arm above the elbow to get her attention. I commented on her shirt and using my hand moved her forward so I could see the back. I even used my hand to sorta smooth out the shirt on the back so I could see it better and also rub on her back a little. (was that a weak kino attempt?) While I was leaning over to check out the back of her shirt I had my other hand on her knee. I felt a little ackwardness in the moment and hopefully she didn't pick up on it. But she probably did. Earlier she had mentioned that she was meeting her friends a 9 and they were just going to chill, so at 8:30 I suggested we leave. (trying to DHV by showing I respect her plans. Good move? or...??) As we left we just sorta walked out the door and went our separate ways with a ok I'll see you at work next week. In fairness it was really cold and we both wanted to get to our cars.

On my way home I sent her an "accidental" text saying something like.. "what are you up to tonight? I'm heading to the club at "x" place. There's like 5 of us already going. You coming?" When she text back, "no I just want to chill" I replied, "oh sorry that text wasn't meant for you". I just wanted to make sure she was thinking about me on the way home.

Well today is the first day back at work. I shot a little text game to her last night that seemed to go ok. So now my question is this,... our job doesn't provide much time for interaction but, it does allow some and I want to make sure she feels my interest, and that it's not just friendly. I work as a box unpacker basically, at a closing store and she works in sales upfront.

Any ideas on how to make our brief interactions count?? Thanks.

Everything that I read was good... Good job on everything..

That little uncomfortable area when touching her knee was nothing.. don't
fret on that no more... no biggie...

The texting thing went over well. When she said that she just wanted to
chill and you said ok.. blah blah... that was a good thing...

Some might have said that you should have said, ok I'm up for just chilling
or whatever... no no no... not the first time you are out together... that
would just have been too weird for her...

Good move on the text game...

You work in the back, and she works in the front...

Okay. When you do see her, you can always look at her, and if she is looking
at you, just point at your shirt while looking at her as if she has something
on her shirt... she will look at her shirt and then back at you as if she is
telepathically saying, "what is it?"

You can then just smile back at her a wink and give the "oh nothing" hand
gesture..

You can also send her a text to get the convo started (if you both carry your
cells on you at work)...

Text Her With...

YOU: Have fun lastnight?
It is so boring back here.
Lets grab dinner tonight.
Having fun up there?
Stop looking at your phone and get back to work
I know you like me.. stop playing with your phone.. make me money girl.

Just some examples for you to work with.

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Thanks for the advice man. Let me ask you something else. I was talking to her today through text cuz she didn't work. We were having ok convo when she brought up my girlfriend. I completely forgot that I had mentioned that to her about a week ago. Well I said we broke up and moved on. Asking her things like "what type of guys she went for" and other things trying to put thoughts of her and I together without coming out and saying "I really like you and want to date you" So anyway I pressed on trying to connect with her through convo. So it turned out that I was getting off early so I tried to set up a dinner date and she said she had something to do at 730 so I said well I'll be off by 530 lets grab something lite around 6 and she said she had practice at 730 (again). I said "oh I understand you dont want to be full while you're practicing" she text back "no I just want to stay home til then."

I've froze her out since and havent said anything. Any ideas on what I could do? Thanks again to everyone.

You just want to act like it's no big deal... for what it's worth...

When she said, "No. I just want to stay home till practice.." you should have
made the comment, "OK, well I'll bring something over and we can eat there
and then I'll be on my way..."

It seems like she is being a little distant with you, but not beyond the point
where something will not happen with you.

If you talk to her again, and something like this comes up again, try this
out... and if she says something other than a PLUS SIGN for you... just
act like something happened and that you have to get off the phone with
her and just hang up... do not respond to what she said to you...

Then, hit me back up in PM or just re-post more on your thread.

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LEPRECHAUN,

Thanks again for the advice. I think distant was the PERFECT word. Let me share today with you and get your feedback. We both had work today and I showed up around 4, she got off at 5 ish. She didn't notice me as I walked in and I didn't acknowledge her and went straight to the back to do my work. A bit later she came to the back and said "hello" in a chipper way and I responded in with a friendly slightly higher energy "what's girl? How you feeling today?" "I'm ok" she replied. Then we both carried on about our business. A bit later she returned and I saw her out the corner of my eye but she wasn't directly in my line of sight so I pretended not to notice her. She was actually coming to get her things and go home. As she passed back by she said "see you later" in a VERY low volume, I almost didn't here her. So I waited a second, just long enough for her to be one step out the door, and said, "oh, you taking off?" "yea" "ok then, have a good night girl, take care". That was the limit of our convo the whole day. I wanted to be friendly but try not to seem like I was trying to talk to her. What do you think??

By the way, I didn't have a chance to try any of those text games because she leaves her cell phone in the back.

One last note for you. My background sorta. I'm just some guy who unpacks boxes, I am a 14 year active duty military member. Own a couple of houses and have a lot more going for me than the "box unpacker guy". She knows these things.

Thanks again bro.

She was wanting you to call her or something.. This was her way of flirting
with you... since she said it so only YOU COULD HEAR IT... it was an invitation.
Nicely played. But, refer back to above reply... she was wanting you to call
her... blah blah.. [read above]
No problem bro... I just gave you some examples that you could work off
of to "kick start" your brain into thinking about shit to text her with...
Cocky & Funny shit...
Damn it man... you are just oozing social status/social proof then... as long
as you don't brag about it, and I know military service men/women don't,
then this shows her even more that you are not a braggart. More points...

This chick is into you, but might be too shy to make the first move. You have
already built up comfort it seems... try inviting yourself over to her house
one night or day, and see if she accepts. If her house is clean by the time
you get there... GOOD SIGN!!!! She is into you...

But... watch out for those gold diggers who might be after your homes or
more importantly... your money and power that you possess.

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