So this really happened to a friend of mine. he perfectly picks up this girl at a bar about a month ago. he calls her they hang out and what ever he ends up cook dinner for her. So they fuck later and immediately after she starts to cry?? a few days after he tries calling her and she ducks him.

So seem like textbook buyers remorse right?!?

this weekend she calls him (he missed the call) so he asked me what i would do and i told him to let her go. she doesnt seem emotionally stable (enough ). but what do you guy think

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Guys need to do what is going to work best for them.

Hanging out with undstable chicks is a real drag. So on that side, dump her.

But what do we really know about this lady? She cried after sex one time? In my book that is not the end of the world. Fact is, I could give a crap. means nothing. I care about the woman I'm with, so I would hope it's nothing too bad going on for her.

But there are lots of reason a woman might cry after sex, so let's not create a huge issue out of that.

I'd say, if the guy likes her, go for it. Why dump her? Is she continues this, then she's got some issues. I'd walk then.

Hmmm...I'm thinking she has a current boyfriend that she hasn't told him about. The crying could be guilt she felt after fucking this new guy. That would also explain her ducking his phone call.

I'd say just proceed as you normally would and give it a little time. If she does have an existing boyfriend that's a secret, then she may dump him and hang with your friend. Or she may not. Take whatever good comes your way, and continue engaging other women yourself.

I could be totally wrong above...but it sure would explain her actions. My estranged wife starting dating me while she was living with her ex-BF. I knew about him, but he did not know about me. She used to cry after sex too, and it was because she felt guilt about the situation. She didn't want to hurt him, but she wanted to be with me. So, I'd say just cruise and see what happens.

Gruuve

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As you said, it appears that she does have some level of buyer's remorse. That's a shame. Well, what does HE want to do? Does he want to keep seeing her? Does he give a sh*t what happens? That's the important issue. He has to dow hat he wants to get what he wants.

If it was me, I'd call her back and see what she wants. Invite her out for coffee, if she seems unstable, do a fade away. I don't do just disappear, it's not fair for people to just disappear without an explanation. If he doesn't want to see her again, he could just tell her "I think that you're great, but I don't think that, it's going to work out between us."

That's just me...