So the situation is this:
Met this girl at a club HB8-9 at she totally digged me. Put her name in my phone without me asking with an exclamation next to it and said make sure you text me.

I talked to her and then we were going to meet up at a concert. She cancelled and but then told me at the last second she was coming and wondered if i had an extra ticket. She left the concert before i even got there, because it took me awhile. I also rented out a big cabin in the mountains for a celebration for getting a base assignment (i'm in the military), that i told her about. She called me a big time player and she said she might come up for the weekend. However, the cabin was far away filled with a bunch of dudes so i didnt push the issue. We have texted back and forth on a few occasions but I feel like i'm losing it. I'm making sure I keep texting to her at a minimum with a day or couple of days in between texts. However, I feel if I continue this I'm going to fall off the edge on this one. I'm being real careful not feel too needy, but its at the point where if I don't text she might not text. The problem is I don't know what to do right now. I would like to try and set something up but I feel like I have to do it on the fly, something like hey i'm going to be downtown tonight if you wanna chill hit me up. Then again I feel that maybe I will come off as needy. I was also planning on shooting her a text on wed, or thurs just to let her know im still interested. Usually i would just say f it and find another girl which is pretty much what i do anyway because i don't have patience to keep a pursuit longer than a week, even if a girl is interested. The problem with this one is she that Im into her more than usual and even though i'm trying to keep her just in range, it seems to be having the same effect on me. So I know that was a long story but I could use some good advice on this one. Thanks for your patience

Blacksheep

shes prolly not too interested in you. she met you at a club and the thing about that is that ur just another guy she met at a club... so far you havent offered her anything special.

is she stupid or a geek? cause if not then she was making fun of you when she called you a big time player...

im getting the feeling that the texts you are sending back and forth are pretty much on the friendly side ala 'hey how was ur day?', 'what are you doing?', etc... so basically you lost her interest. it might be too late for you man

id recommend not sending her any messages at all. ever. if women thought that there was somethin about a guy they met, they dont really delete his or her number. eventually she'll get a hold of you if she wants to and if that day does come around, you make sure to jump on it as in "hey baby i wanna hook up no bullshit" i'd be very forward cause its prolly what she wants to hear even if she doesnt think so...

See the problem with that is a few things:

One the texts between us haven't been hey how are you? If they were I would be done right now. They are a little more dirty than that which why i'm still interested.

Too the big player comment was joke between us because I had called her a player previously so it was joke.

Thanks for the last part that is wat i was thinking

Please...Please...Please people stop posting with how they thing they are the shit when they are some nerdy kid sitting at the damn computer. Not saying that colloso is i was just reading other posts and i find it out its some 15 year old trying to get high schooler telling me how to meet a chick at the bar.

Hey there,
I think it could be a couple different things:
Colloso could be right, she could well be not interested enough in you. But I also think that a lot of the times, you can create that interest or inrease it if it's not enough.
If, however, she is very interested, then the "player" thing could be her way to jokingly shit test you.
I guess it really comes down to how much YOU are into her. Interest and attraction need to be maintained after being created. If she was interested doesn't mean that she still is and will be forever. So are you willing to not txt her untill she does and risking letting her flow away?
I would try at least one more time with something like:
"hey I've got invited by a mate and I'm planning to come to town for the weekend, I think we should meet coz I was reading your txts and I thought to myself "can't remember her that well but she seems like someone worth spending a lil of my time with"
My point, for as obvious as it might seem, if you ready to gamble, you need to be able to lose.
If you really into her then, waist no time, be direct (or semi-direct anyway) and go for it.
hope that helps
Dynamo

I'll give it a whirl but this will definately be the last time for any kind of reach out by me. Aprreciate the help, and i totally agree with that philosphy, Win big or lose big but you have to take a risk. Thanks for reminding me of that.

blacksheep.... are you gettin stationed in yuma?

well if ur lettin her know ur intentions and she still is gettin bored with it... there has to be something ur saying or not saying that is throwing her off. or she might have another man in her life...

p.s. im about to be 22 and am very successful with the ladies. i know EXACTLY what you mean though about these kids all over the forum.

Nah I'm going to be down South in the U.S. for a little bit...thats good to know though man. I think thats the biggest problem on the forum i want people that are my equals or better. And sometimes you just don't know who your taking advise from. Like i said though i'll give it one more go if there isn't any dice then i'll just move on no biggy.