A buddy and I went to a dance club, and we were sitting at a table near the dance floor. We were having a few drinks and talking as afcs normally do. Then a Hb9 walks across the floor making eye contact with me the whole way and asks if I want to dance. It was a slow dance so I carried a conversation on with her and got her name and some other details. Then a Hip-hop song came on and we did the bump and grind stuff. My friend waves me back to the table so I tell her I'll be back in a sec. He tells me he is leaving and he is my ride home. So I try to look for her but can't find her. So my buddy being the dick he is starts walking out so I left without gettin her #.

My question is do I send her a message on online? Or will I seem like a stalker?
I came up with this but I need some opinions."Hey you forgot to give me your number, but I'll forgive you this time. I might even call you after you give i to me."

I say forget this one and either get a new wingman or whip this one up to shape. Current situation leaves you with little options. If you guys don't have any mutual friends on facebook, it WILL seem stalkerish

We did go to the same high school but she graduated a few years ahead of me. So we do have some mutual friends.

just count it as a loss...

I did just this, fucking hilarious, this girl id make small talk with and all kinds of shit...added her on facebook(accepted) posted on her wall, NOTHING BACK. Thinking fuck this bitch i delete her.....come to find out later(not directly asking her) she didnt even know my name, even though we met way before previously....

MORAL, do the god damn gaming in person and or over the phone only.

Most girls I don't really care if I ever see or talk to again. But this girl was amazing. I hate thinking what if I would have tried something. I doubt I'll ever see her out again, but who knows.