so girl gave me the rundown of the bases. ive been to 1st which is making out.

after the rundown i start to chuckle as im kissin/caressing. she asks what? and so i say imma bout to steal a base.

long story short. shes here for the weekend. goes to college 5 hours away. we have mutual friends. so when she is in town she kicks it with everyone i know. she says she doesnt want things to get awkward or weird that we cnat hang out anymore.

so i basically said i agreed and that we should just see where we go.

now what the F do i do/say to get to 2nd 3rd or home?

i get endless IOI's, shes revealed her whole sexual past (wtf!?), tease or genuinely likes me? im lost. help me back on track puhhhlease

Build Tension and escalate.

Tension can be built by teasing, two steps forward, one step back... that sort of thing.


Right now she's the prize... you're the guy out running to get to home base... but what if you turn this around, see it as though it's she that really wants to score. ?


So, two steps forward, caress her tits, perhaps, then move back and say "Oh, I can't." run her through that one.
That'll leave her with the feeling you had, pretty much, which is "why not..?" so if she re-initiates then you carry on a little "reluctantly" but lean back, let it happen, don't rush it.

Kissing her neck is also very good, as is pulling her hair at the back of her head, almost where the neck connects with the skull.
try this out a little on yourself so you know what it is all about, and make sure you don't twist, because that will hurt, pulling it straight back and down will be a trigger that'll escalate things a little.


By her giving you tons of IOIs and having told you lots or all about her sexual past, she probably wants you, but you are in danger of ending in the LJBF zone...
So get the sexual undertone back, and make sure it doesn't become this "I don't want to ruin our friendship"-thing from her side...


hehe, though it was cool, the base steal-comment may have been a little out of place...
It made her conscious about it and made it seem like you were chasing for home base...
That's not entirely good.

If you'd saved that one until you were fucking her, and just as you come you lean your head back and scream "HOOOME RUUUUN!" instead. :D:D

btw. don't do that unless you have balls the size of water melons.


Start teasing her more.
You want it either balanced with you both wanting eachother equally or you want it slightly in your favor, with her wanting you more...


If she's the only one generating lust between you two, you need to start playing the game as well..
One-way game isn't very good.
and right now, she's the one playing you... (even though she seems to be authentically interested, if you don't play her back, she'll tire.)

thank you friend!

so how would i do this through AIM, text, or phone? she goes to school like 5 hrs away

I'd say keep the sexual tension building regardless of medium.
So, all of those

Get the sexual undertone working, suggestions, but keep it bouncing back and forth. So it doesn't end up with you flooding her with sexual suggestive stuff and getting nothing back.

Tease her and such.
Tell her off for being naughty, etc.
maybe stuff like "If you were closer I'd so have to spank you for that." or other stuff like it

See if she follows you into the sexual frame.
And keep calibrating so you don't come off heavy sexual but rather playful, depending on her responses of course, but you don't want to seem like a sex-thirsty dude, drooling over the pc, but rather as a person who is comfortable with the whole sexual tension and can keep teasing her, playfully.
Right ?


Cheers.

you are money big bad wolf!?

i like that spanking thing.

and other sexual tension suggestions? ill search it and see whats up too.

but really thanks. i hooked u up with a +3 by the by

Btw, next time you see her, be really on the lookout for windows of opportunity.

If you get the heavy sexual flirting vibe thing going on phone and such, things have a real potential of getting hot and heavy pretty fast, if you are prepared for them and don't hold back.

That means, next time you meet, have a location ready to bounce back to,
If you do things right you get kisses straight off, and from there on it's purely about escalating sexually, (even better if you meet at an area where this would be inappropriate, so to add on the tension (being "not allowed" is really turn-on material, a hand on the inside of a thigh in a public place and a knowing look can be all it takes))

But back to now;
Innuendo, and accusation.
Sexual Undertones.

If you accuse her of thinking sexual with enough conviction, she will begin to think that way.. so if you say something that can be interpreted sexually (and of course you do this deliberately) you can accuse her of making the sexual connection.

If she goes with it and starts doing the same, you do the spanking, tell her you ought to tie her up so she doesn't go around freaking people out, or something.
Adapt the classic "Oh my God".. like "Omg, you are so bad,.. I ought to cuff you to the bed and teach you some manners"


And you can do stuff, if you are into heavy flirting and such, where you just state plainly; "You want me to fuck your brains out, I know you do.
You probably want me to do X with you while pulling your hair backwards and biting your neck, etc." (You adapt this to suit what you know she likes, and describe a likely fantasy of hers, using the things she likes. With you in the main role.) Say she likes to be fucked Doggy Style, you say that "I bet you're thinking about me, positioned behind you, right now, ready to fuck you from behind, with you down on all fours,...."and so on.


But really, first if you get the sexual undertones going in the communication, you can gradually escalate until you're describing how you will fuck her the next time you meet, getting her to say how she wants it.
Maybe involving fantasies about public spaces, etc. depending on her, of course, but you can always add a little extra to the Fantasies, since they're "just" fantasies


I'll cut it short here, since I don't know whether I'm starting to repeat myself. But I bet you've got the general idea.

It may help to play around a little with stuff in your head first, maybe write some stuff out and see how it looks on paper/screen.


And if you're going into fantasies, reading some stuff from women's magazines and such (I bet most of them have sections describing such) and taking some of the language therefrom may really help.

You know, just getting the jist of what sort of thing they usually focus on, like how much more they notice details and such.

(I used to read these fantasies written by women when I was younger, which I guess has helped shape the way I think about sex into a more female-friendly type. )


Hope you find something of use in my ramblings.
Cheers